how can i be as good as others?

I am a quite and shy person. Sometimes when I meet peoples I didn't know what to say. I just smile or stay behind something or someone. I don't know how to start a conversation. I have graduated for severel years and I am still unemployed, adding to that I kept running away from others... How can I change myself to be a more confident person, having many friends, a steady job... Sometimes some people seems nice but behind us they were some creatures, creating stories and etc about us. How do I face this kind of people.

Asked By: just_me - 11/10/2006
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You can't be someone you're not. However, there is hope. You have to be willing to become more outgoing. But you are correct there are people who stab you in the back and talk bad about you when you are not around. But this happens to everyone. I work in a factory and I talk to everyone in my area because of my... More
Answered By: CGS - 11/10/2006
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A lot of people have these symptoms. They can be overcome and you can lead an average life like everybody else. Look to Recovery Incorporated for a good support group. It works for me.
Answered By: chris B - 11/10/2006
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