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Is it appropriate to ask a girl out, while she's on the job?

I'll be blunt: I don't like going into "Pier 1 Imports", but there is a very a***************e working in there. I've been hesitant to ask her out seeing that she's on the job; customers, as well as her co-workers are always around. But she seems nice, and I'd like her to be my lady. I've never run into a scenario like this, so I've had a difficult time strategizing. Anyone have any opinions and/or possible approaches? I don't mean to be a puss, but this to be a tough one. Thanks. I'll be blunt: I don't like going into "Pier 1 Imports", but there is a very a***************e working in there. I've been hesitant to ask her out seeing that she's on the job; customers, as well as her co-workers are always around. But she seems nice, and I'd like her to be my lady. I've never run into a scenario like this, so I've had a difficult time strategizing. Anyone have any opinions and/or possible approaches? I was thinking: present her a "list" of items I'm looking for, with "can I get your number" -- corny or what? I don't mean to be a puss, but this to be a tough one. Thanks.

Asked By: Greg G. - 1/7/2007
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Yes.
Answered By: Magic 8-Ball - 1/7/2007
Additional Answers (12)
It depends on the situation. Does she seem to like you? Is there mutual flirting going on. The problem with asking a girl out at work is that it happens all of the time and it gets old. Maybe if you just asked her if she had a break coming up soon and offer to buy her a cup of coffee. Then you can talk for a while and... More
Answered By: flappymcp - 1/7/2007
 
it doesnt matter where it is. if u r that dude, u r that dude. as long as u show urself as a self-confident person and you know what you are doing, it might end up helping u out way better b/c u r being unique also.
Answered By: Whetin - 1/7/2007
 
Get her phone and ask her.
Answered By: gloria_tintillo - 1/7/2007
 
if u want that lady then tell her without wasting time.tell her to meet u at lunch time.then ask her whether she will go for a movie just for fun.if she likes it then u can do the rest like kiss,pump .....
Answered By: Jackson - 1/7/2007
 
um. totally ask her out. get her number. write a note. i used to work at pier one. just ask her for assistance somewhere somewhat secluded and get to talking then ask her out. you can do it!! Good Luck!
Answered By: califniadrmn - 1/7/2007
 
no. its just if yer game iz enough for her to say yes. try to keep it friendly try to make her laugh. this is my advice.
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Answered By: M.P. - 1/7/2007
 
Well there's not really a problem with doing it but you chances might not be that great. She probablly gets hit on all day long and might just see you as another guy drooling over her. If you really want to go for it I'd suggest going there awhile before they close, and go buy something right when she's about to get... More
Answered By: Somebuddy - 1/7/2007
 
After buying something, write your name and number on the receipt, tell her you think she's beautiful or whatever and that you hope to get to know her better if she wants to call you. The offer of "if" she wants to call you makes it seem less cornering. In other words, you don't want to make her feel like you... More
Answered By: I wanted tomorrow yesterday - 1/8/2007
 
it is not appropriate to ask her while she is on the job, but it is perfectly alright to ask her after work.
Answered By: abenezer scrooge - 1/8/2007
 
Ahhh the shyness. I was once like you. Let's see I know it's difficult to just come and talk to someone who you're attracted to. But sometimes you MUST be brave. You have to overcome it. It's easy for me to say but trust me only you can change yourself. Just think it this way are you going to DIE if she rejects you... More
Answered By: Lotus99 - 1/8/2007
 
That is so sweeeeeeeet... More
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Answered By: Miz Phoenix - 1/8/2007
 
Hello there, i think that it is not appropriate to ask a girl out while she is on her job. The reason I said that is because she may have a lot of pressure on her at work. The right thing to do is ask for her phone number or something you can communicate with (e.g. e-mail address.) Bye bye Good luck!!
Answered By: Ravie l - 1/15/2007
 
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