One day, you guys will be SOOOOOO proud of yourselves for having made it, for having stuck together, worked together. You will have a great story for your daughter!
Here's a few links to services in New Jersey:
The Affordable Homes Group, Inc.
94-96 Rancocas Rd., PO Box 249, Mt. Holly, NJ 08060
Provides a wide range of affordable housing services to lower income people – from homelessness to homeownership.
Christian Caring Center
PO Box 385, Pemberton, NJ 08068
378 Lakehurst Rd., Browns Mills, NJ 08015
Emergency 3-Day supply of food and clothing, Thrift Store, Community Lunch, NJ Shares Utility Program, Salvation Army Services Unit, job training, rural homeless outreach, networking, men's shelter, basket program.
ossroads Programs, Inc.
662 Main Street, Lumberton Twp., Mt. Holly, NJ 08060
Residential and community based services to homeless, abused, abandoned, and neglected youth. Serve pregnant and parenting teens, youth transitioning to independent living, and runaway and homeless youth. - might have ideas for you
Interfaith Hospitality Network
228 Mt. Laurel Rd., Mt. Laurel, NJ 08054
United outreach by the religious community in Burlington Co. to provide shelter, meals, and assistance to homeless families.
I'm sorry you're in such a terrible place. I do think that it is important for you to look at the fact that being 'good people' is not adequate. Everything doesn't go wrong for you - you guys haven't laid a good foundation and gotten a good start for your life.
Why you are pregnant when you don't have a home is a huge issue and shows you are not facing life with discipline and realism and responsibility. When you do it that way, things are much tougher. When you stablize and lay a better foundation, things won't be as tough.
Remember, nurse your child - save tons of money on formula, and improve your child's health. Remember, day care is very bad for children. Remember, your child needs little besides you, and without you, little matters to her. And don't get pregnant again until your little family is in a good place.