Someone tell me how I can escape from death and misery cause I am gay?
I think I am gay and the only way to run from the fact is to get a job which keeps me away from the phobics. I am in University studying commerce and also studying for certified public accountant of Kenya. I have tried weird jobs like asking about joining the intelligence service(something I am good at from childhood brainwise) I am however shortsighted(not feet for other forces).In Kenya being gay is hard and so I think I may have to shift to another country. If only I could get a sponsor to take me abroad(we are a poor family). I tried to commit suicide while in high school but thought it would end after school(I was once about to be lynched).The same people are in University, I am now planning suicide after everything fails. I once went to a psychologist cause of depression after school(I do not think he realized) I had failed terribly and had to repeat(no one knows why I failed)
Asked By: nino_mike - 9/17/2007
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Don't commit suicide. First of all, you don't want to end it that way. There are countries that accept the gay lifestyle. Like France and Netherlands... More
Answered By: intrepid18 - 9/17/2007
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Dude, first I don't support the gay lifestyle nor do I like them around me. With that said, suicide is not the answer. If you really feel you have to be gay, then move to Amsterdam. They love gay people there.
Answered By: k9guy07 - 9/17/2007
Just accept what is, stop resisting life.
Answered By: J E - 9/17/2007
look, being gay is actually perfectly normal no matter what the idiots say! there r gay horses and penguins and stuff so of corse its natural. i suggest u try and move. i dunno where u live right now but i kno that in central london and brighton (uk) and stuff there r loads of gay ppl and you could b acepted, also... More
Answered By: meeee! - 9/17/2007
IF you think your life is in danger because of being gay, you should behave very cautiously. There are millions of gay people in the world, and many lead successful and happy lives. Try to take care of your fear and depression, work at what you do, one day at a time, learn how to lift your spirits because you are in... More
Answered By: Luci D. - 9/17/2007
Jesus can take care of all those problems. He loves you more than you can love yourself. I recommend studying the bible for answers. And find a bible teaching support group. What you probably have is something we call a stronghold. It can be caused by neglect,abuse, or some other trauma you may have experienced. But... More
Answered By: JesusIsTheAnswer - 9/17/2007
suicide is not the answer. i have a few gay friends who are very successful. you need to accept who you are. and those who don't accept who you are, well that is their loss because i am sure that you are great and smart person and have a lot to offer the world. and if kenya is not the place for you then there are... More
Answered By: kckmellons - 9/17/2007
Believe this if nothing else and know that this is a fleeting situation for you, because you are getting educated. When you leave school, look for a life in another country, you need to get away from the medieval thinking. There is nothing wrong with you or that you are gay.... there is something wrong with the people... More
Answered By: kittenlove - 9/17/2007
you need to join some on line support groups to deal with the fact that you are gay (i would say to talk to a psychiatrist) but they are expensive and you said you do not have money...you will not be happy with yourself or your life until you realize that you cannot run from your sexuality...i hope this helps!!!
Answered By: CHELBY H - 9/17/2007
You're living under a great deal of stress and negativity. That is why you see no way out of it, but suicide... More
Answered By: Marguerite - 9/17/2007
Start saving up money. I'm also a university student. Part of being more confident in who you are, is to be more confident in your sexuality. It's not like you chose to be gay. Just like I didn't choose to be straight. It's a genetic thing. So, love yourself, and others will love you, no matter the sexuality. And like... More
Answered By: kari_lively - 9/17/2007
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