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Happiness...how do you find it within yourself? Where do you start to look inside??

I feel stuck right now, I'm a single mom, 25 years old, and recently divorced with 2 children. I dont know which direction to take my life now that I'm free. I feel so unhappy most of the time, being a single mom of 2 wasnt exactly the way I had planned my life. I'm also in a career change at the moment, I'm in the mortgage business, and that's really gone down hill, so I need to change up. Life's been tough, I've tried to be tougher, but I feel more and more like a failure. How do I get to that place they call "happiness"?? I cant find it anywhere, it has to start with "ME"....but I feel like I dont really know who I am anymore, I kind of lost myself @ 17 when I got married and became a mother....now I've got my life back and I dont know what to do with it. I wish I had more time to focus on "ME" instead of the mundane day to day "rat race"....job, kids, bills, kids....lol. It's like everything takes up soo much time, where do I start to try and focus on ME and try to be happy again?

Asked By: SINGLEMOMOF2 - 9/20/2007
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sounds like ur overwhelmed (as u should be w/2 kids) BUT try to incorporate ur things with the kids things...being that ur recently divorced u shouldnt really be looking to date yet so that gives u time for JUST you & ur kids...start with ur priorities and start at the begining-your home.....arrange things in a simple... More
Answered By: resolucion - 9/20/2007
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I have come to the point that happiness is a total picture---am I happy every day of my life? No. Am I happy most days of my life and after a down time or moment, pick up and have positive outlook? Yes... More
Answered By: TMJ - 9/20/2007
 
Songs can lift your spirit... hope this one will help... More
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Answered By: Asha - 9/20/2007
 
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