please help (advice)?
please dont judge me as you dont understand the reasons that lead up to it im 18 now, when i was 17 i quit my job because i hated myself and felt so worthless i just couldnt stand going out or being around people but i had rent/bills to pay and ended up turning to prositution i never go out any more as clients come to mine and i have lost contact with all my friends coz i pushed them away. but i hate what i do so i stopped, but now im out of money and dont know what to do, i cant stand the thought of doing it one minute longer. im in contact with my dad and considering telling him-but will he push me out his life 4 good if i told he what i do? how would you react if it was your daughter? please help, im so messed up and dont know what to do.
Asked By: Steph - 4/3/2008
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I'm really sorry to hear how awful it's been for you lately. It sounds like it's been dreadful for you. There are a number of things that you need support with right now, but don't get upset or think you can't cope - I promise that if you go for the right help and assistance you'll turn it around... More
Answered By: KAREN S - 4/3/2008
Additional Answers (27)
Talk to you dad and get the help, money is not worth the danger that you are putting yourself in, it is never too late to turn things around!
Answered By: Dee DEE - 4/3/2008
Your honesty is refreshing, but you are in need of serious help... More
Answered By: hoozlefritz - 4/3/2008
If you were my daughter I'd have you living with me because you clearly can't cope on your own. You've shown that by the bad decisions you've made
Answered By: Yellow Diamond - 4/3/2008
The best thing you can do is tell your father - believe me. Of course he may well be shocked but he will be so glad you told him as opposed to going into that world again. And he might be able to help you. Please tell him. It'll be the best decision you've ever made.
Answered By: Bel P - 4/3/2008
go back home and tell your dad or not, but go home then you may be able to put this behind you and start again
Answered By: maca - 4/3/2008
i think telling your dad is a good idea. if he does push you away then try to let him now by explaining in detail why you had to do what you did. not necessarily your actions but your feelings, let him know that would really strive if he lent you a helping hand. stuff happens, people change grow and forgive. even if... More
Answered By: Bee - 4/3/2008
If it was my daughter,i'd be mortified and do whatever it took to make her happy and well again. Above all,i would feel a terrible failure as a parent.............
Answered By: trish s - 4/3/2008
Good for you you get out of that life !!! You Father never ever is going to push you away of his life... He must love you.. you are his daugther.. You should talk with him and explain him the situation.. I think now he is the only one you can trust and can help you. Good Luck.
Answered By: *Mrs.Reggio* - 4/3/2008
one word GOD
Answered By: Rianu - 4/3/2008
Wow quite a 'realistic' question. 17 into prositution eh? that's illegal in this country love. i think this question is just a joke.. well love people do actually go into prositution and its not very funny to be joking about it. get a life.. this is just a chatroom.. dont you have anything better to do???
Answered By: Skittles™ - 4/3/2008
i realy feel sorry for you but i think you should get a job ! just get up and go look for a job! stop feeling sorry for yourself.
Answered By: SpoilleR - 4/3/2008
If you were my daughter and needed help and were willing to do the things needed , I would let you back into my life... More
Answered By: americanfreeman - 4/3/2008
why dont you get a regular job? maybe you could get a job where you dont have to deal with many people. im sorry you feel so bad about yourself- if you already know that your father will not react well then i would say dont tell him unless you think he will be there for you- I think you should see a therapist to help... More
Answered By: cupidgirl - 4/3/2008
Its hard to say, I'd be quite upset and hurt that my daughter had resorted to prostitution rather than contact me to seek assistance in paying rent/bills. You can seek help through the following: www.womenssupportproject.co.uk http://www.samaritans.org/ or phone 08457 90 90 90
Answered By: Caponez - 4/3/2008
I imagine your dad will do everything in his power to help you, but you won't know unless you ask him... More
Answered By: princess - 4/3/2008
thats a sad thing... but believe it or not quick money attracts even the most beautiful of people... first i will say go to a labor ready place everyday and they will help u get jobs to make ends meet... second if u were my daughter id be very upset that u didnt come to me for help before going to this level... as my... More
Answered By: killin_loneliness - 4/3/2008
So you livin' by yourself right now? If you were my daughter, I will hug you so tight b/c i luv u and miss you and glad that u are in my arms. I will help you in everything and make sure your okay. Get out of prostitution its not the answer. You should tell you father, he should understand b/c your his daughter and you... More
Answered By: Millie - 4/3/2008
If I had a daughter who told me that you mentioned in your question, I would be shocked and maybe disappointed at first but I would never turn my back on my children, no matter what. I would help you and keep you off the stuff you did or do... More
Answered By: Dan - 4/3/2008
what you need to do first is find a job, just suck it up ppl can be stupid and unbearable but... it's part of life... More
Answered By: d**n Kitty - 4/3/2008
I'm sorry to here whats going on i feel for you i really do and i hope you can find some help. Yeah I think you should talk to your father and tell him that you regret what you did and that it was a mistake start from there. Maybe you can stay with him get a job and start anew. Maybe that might help if not hold on... More
Answered By: Jahaira M - 4/3/2008
The first thing you need to do is address your possible depression, or whatever it is that's making you feel worthless, etc... More
Answered By: Kelly H - 4/3/2008
e-mail me. i want to council you privately. I think i can help. From one female to another. I will work with you in approximately 6 hours or so. I am a traditional healer of Chinese medicine and of their ancient thoughts. I do have your answer if it will work for you. firstname.lastname@example.org sincerely, diana
Answered By: diana e - 4/3/2008
Hi Steph. Lets see if we can help you and makes things a bit more positive. . There are some, not all, but some very cruel and stupid replies. Never mind , they can't help it... More
Answered By: Richard_SM - 4/3/2008
Answered By: izzywizzywotnot - 4/3/2008
Listen to your gut hun. Not all parents will be able to accept what you have been doing and help you. We all like to believe that parents will accept us and love us no matter what we have done, however in my experience I have seen that it is not always the case... More
Answered By: meowzie - 4/3/2008
howdy friend, I am not going to judge you not at all ,it is not in my nature to do such a thing,i quite understand the reason that lead to what you had made a mess up of your life,and now your conscience is trying to redeemed it self for that inflicted life you lead... More
Answered By: Emmanuel M - 4/3/2008
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