how do you think i achieve this specific goal in life at my disadvantages ?

this is my top goal in life : get a good paying job in computers - move to portugal or spain permanently....leave britain for a spanish girl, get married....find a secure home near the coast near a small non commercialised village. i know its a long shot off....but this is my number 1 goal in life...thats it, that paragraph not willing to compromise or reconsider. but look at the disadvantages im at in life: im 30 years old...suffered a tortorous life....never been employed, missed out on qualifications.......have a criminal past going back 8 years......been in a psychiatric hospital 8 years ago.....suffer with borderline personality & post traumatic stress.....waiting for in a one bedroom flat on sickness benifit.....own no possessions except an old computer....have no savings....never built up any relationships. have a long mental health record, aged prematurly physically. look at the disadvantages im at .. how can i achieve that how can i achieve that specific goal in life ? can i achieve it ? is it doable ? i desperatly want to achieve that be honest its the only reason im being strong through my hard times right now.. its my number 1 goal. how long will it take me ? what do i need to do ? im hoping you can answer in specifics thanks

Asked By: ∫e mousquetaire XVI - 5/13/2008
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Get some good qualifications to start with. Look into home study if you think college will be too much. If you can't get a 'job' in spain, you could always be self-employed... More
Answered By: lotashao - 5/14/2008
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go play an MMORPG - you can be anything in it.
Answered By: Serge O - 5/13/2008
it is / will be a big mountain to climb but with determination and will power anything in this life is possible, good luck
Answered By: maca - 5/13/2008
There's always hope. love. First of all, try Big Issue site, on Google - if your own computer can't do it, your local library can help... More
Answered By: Pyewacket - 5/13/2008
don't waste time thinking about your disadvantages put them behind you, get off your backside and enrol in IT courses in your local community (get in touch with Learn Direct) there really is plenty of free opportunities out there for you, my son was in the exact position your in now 2 years ago (the weed didn't help... More
Answered By: DinhaC - 5/13/2008
The first step and the key to the rest of your plan is you need to get onto a course in computers at your local college. I'm no expert in computing but possibly something like web design. Good luck
Answered By: Johnny Decca - 5/14/2008
I am so glad Ghost that you've got some direction and aspirations for your future, but I hate to say this, there is no way to accurately guess whether or when this will happen to you. Your question is like asking a magic 8 ball for a definite answer... More
Answered By: Cat S - 5/14/2008
YOu can do it. Write out a plan and take small steps to follow thru
Answered By: lisa s - 5/14/2008
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