To the black americans, i need some help understanding you?

I'm not racist...Well maybe by pointing out your race I am. But everyone has their prejudices and stereotypes because it is a natural function of the brain to protect itself. But anyways let me know what you think. I've come across many black people in my life and i find these few things in common. When i seem to complain to a black person about how rude and loud they are, they always seem to use "what you saying that cuz i'm black?" No, stupid i'm not saying that cuz your black, i'm saying it cuz your LOUD. Why do black people (no this does not apply to all of black people) say such things? They also say stuff like "cuz i'm black i don't get equal opportunities." For some this stands true. But in my experience many of these acclaimed gangsters say it. I find this intriguing because these gangsters choose to give up their education and are unhappy at working at McDonalds. So at least here in SF i think they have good opportunities they just throw it away. CAn someone clarify this 4 m sorry dtrain didn't mean to offend you. But what makes you think I'm white? i think you're also only seeing what you want to see. I'm trying to learn and i just put an observation i see out there and am trying to understand why there seems to be some trend as why many black people blame others for being racist when it has nothing entirely to do with it. And for your fact im asian. oh and to why something something. Your telling me i'm racist when you just made a racist comment yourself. I'm stating an observation i see and would like you to evaluate it. IN no way was i referring to all black people since i know that not all black people act that way. But in this case alot that I have seen do and i was wondering why, I was only looking for an answer and in no way was i attacking you personally. This question was not meant to offend anybody and if you take offense in it well don't answer and hit the back command button. Thats all you have to do and for the person (i forgot the name as i type this) who answered about seeing racism in nothing i appreciate it. That was the kind of answer i was looking for. And why do you all assume i'm white and this is a white and black issue. Its not IM JAPANESE AND CHINESE. And my people have gone through prejudice as well. maybe not the same as black people but in different ways. My grandparents were stuck in internment camps while no Germans were put into internment camps. My grandparents were stuck on angel island. My great great aunt was faced with many prejudices as well when she was the wife of a man who worked on the railroad. So please don't assume about my race just because of the topic of my question. oh and thanks for the personal attacks (most of you) and for the wrong kind of attacks.

Asked By: Jeffrey G - 6/18/2008
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I'm a black woman who is VERY intelligent. I, too, see other blacks carry a SHOCKING IGNORENCE, that make me shutter sometimes. I am a officer at one of my jobs. For 20 years, the building that i work in was whites only. Now that the manager on the upper level own a specific business, Only LOUD, ghetto acting black... More
Answered By: AngelicBeauty - 6/18/2008
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dont we all.
Answered By: redneck boy - 6/18/2008
1. You will only see what you lok for... More
Answered By: dtrain - 6/18/2008
You need to get out more and meet more black people. The understanding you seek will follow.
Answered By: ApocalypseLater - 6/18/2008
O.k what would you like me to do if every black man you met was loud and obnoxious, would you like me to go to the secret board of black men and address this matter to them, so that this one white man will feel less burdened. Pleases, give me a break i can't see what your questions is trying to achieve , in fact i don'... More
Answered By: Jamal K - 6/18/2008
I'm guessing that you haven't run into enough black people in your life if all of them are rude and loud, and blame "the man" for not letting them live the American Dream. I don't do either, and I talk to lots and lots of white people every day. Although I don't know all of the circumstances behind your encounter... More
Answered By: Judgie C - 6/18/2008
you are racist. you dont see the same pattern in white people? those red necks who live in trailer parks? of course you dont. because your racist.
Answered By: whyispeeyellow - 6/18/2008
im not racist but... More
Answered By: SiLlY fArT - 6/18/2008
Clarify what... More
Answered By: 7 - 6/18/2008
i'm quiet does that make me..unblack?
Answered By: kevinsnatchatori - 6/18/2008
"When i seem to complain to a black person about how rude and loud they are, they always seem to use "what you saying that cuz i'm black... More
Answered By: psychmaj323 - 6/18/2008
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