Have you ever wanted revenge??? How and why???

I am just wondering if I am the only person out there who feels like revenge. I have been screwed around, mistreated and belittled by someone and they have gotten away with it completely. They have even moved on to a great job, new car, $$$ and i am left with the pieces. This person has been careful to never put things in writing and is a skilled bull-shit'ter and i am afraid it seems he will get away with everything. i don't want to get into details here, but he has royally screwed me and been nasty beyond words. what can i do? do i ring up his new boss? do i undermine him somehow? how do i do this? should i bother? i would wipe the floor with him if i could, but i have not had the chance. what would you suggest? learn to forgive??? No, I can't let him succeed. I have to screw with him. That's how I feel. I can't let him move on. He has screwed me proper and I can't let it go... Yes, you make a good point, Andrew. I was bullied at school too. I have sort of forgiven that and moved on. I have not let it torture me. I don't feel so forgiving with this guy though. He has been a real nasty pig to me. And he is getting away with it!!! How can I seek revenge? And if not, how can I move on and forgive or forget????!!!!

Asked By: Zoe Dot - 6/25/2008
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I'm getting my own revenge through and it feels wonderful. More
Answered By: awakeandlearning - 6/27/2008
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learn to forgive....and rise "above" already seem like you might know the answer...good luck
Answered By: ibettergonow - 6/25/2008
Before you can rise, you must first fall... More
Answered By: Andrew Walker - 6/25/2008
Some people become skilled at deceit. Stay away from them and advise others to beware. Socialize with people who think like you.
Answered By: Tim W - 6/25/2008
Yes, I had a friend who recently resurfaced in my life after many years. We were really brothers. He needed to borrow some money, so I lent him $1,000. He never paid it back and continued to lie, saying, "It will be here tomorrow." Even after I told him to just tell me the truth, he continued to tell... More
Answered By: irish_jimmy - 6/25/2008
My soon-to-be-ex-husband has done the most unimaginable things to me and our 7 month old son. I could go on for days about what he's done, but I won't... More
Answered By: Miss Never Satisfied - 6/25/2008
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