Is it wrong to Discuss silly arguments my fiance and I have with my friends?
my fiance and i work together in a retail pharmacy and he also attends pharmacy school. I work every day while he only works one day a week when he is in school. We are really good friends with the people we work with, esp. me because they are all women. When its not busy we all chat like women usually do. well, once or twice i told them about silly arguments my fiance and i have and they all laugh... but usually its nothing personal at all. The other day at school one of RJ's classmates who works for the same company we do told us that our pharmacy had alot of customer complaints and he came home and told me how he agreed and we were a buch of smart asses.. including me sometimes. well.. i kinda took offense to this and disagreed... i think we are all quite nice. well, i told to girls in the office what he had heard... but never said he said it. When he reported to work the next day the women confronted him about what he had heard and he got reallly mad at me and called me to chew me out and told me i need to keep our conversation between us only. I feel like shit and want to cry but at the same time... i didnt think this was personal and i told the ladies that it wasnt him who said it. what do i say to him... am i really that wrong?
Asked By: lovemydoc - 11/9/2008
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yes. you are wrong. keep your personal life at home and your business face at work. you seem very young and naive. i would highly suggest for the health of your relationship that you find another job somewhere else, so that you can do what my first sentence advises... More
Answered By: Christie Brucks - 11/9/2008
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Yes. If it bothers him, it is wrong. All you can do is apologize and show him you respect him but not talking about negative aspects of your personal life to others...especially those who will turn around and act as though he is a criminal... More
Answered By: ♥The Mrs.♥ - 11/9/2008
Too much drama for me!
Answered By: popskb - 11/9/2008
Yes you were wrong.whatever you and your man discuss in the privacy of your home should remain in your home between the two of you.
Answered By: kgirl26 - 11/9/2008
Yes. You need to keep your personal life personal..
Answered By: Sunshine - 11/9/2008
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