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How to spend christmas and new years alone?

I'm 19 and I have the worst parents ever, not once have they held a birthday for me or ever given me a christmas gift, I don't care so much about gifts now that I'm older, I don't have other family or friends and definitely no GF so I wanted to know what should I do to enjoy myself, I've already left a present under the tree for the children's hospital and it felt great but need some more ideas, last year I sleep through christmas day so anything is better than that lol

Asked By: Hands Up Chin Down Buddy - 12/18/2008
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Take the day and make it yours would be the short excuse.

Volunteering is a nice thing to do for a couple hours. However, a few other suggestions (I've been doing this for several years):

-Get up and work out. Go for a run/jog, bike ride. It'll get the endorphins going, and give you a solid start to the day.
-Go shopping on Christmas Eve for something decent to fix for dinner. Make what you want.
-Watch that DVD you've been meaning to. Failing that, if there's a movie you want to see, go see it. Don't worry about being solo; go in, enjoy the film, and relax. You're on your schedule!
-If you're in/near a major city, head into the downtown area. Great time to see the sights on what is typically an uncrowded day.

In short, make the day productive. Stay busy. TV is generally crap.

New Year's Day is a great day to get yourself fully organized for the year. Plan out your next few months. If you're not in college, work on your resume (sign up for one of the job search sites). If you're emotionally ready to start dating, sign up through one of the online sites (they're free). Work out.

Make a list of goals for the coming year (things you want to accomplish). Then get them done. There's no better time to start than New Year's Day.

Here's the deal; you'll only be miserable if you choose to be. There is a certain power in being by yourself; turn it into a positive.
Answered By: Leafsfan29-Embrace the drought! - 12/18/2008
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Ya know, that is really a sad story but you got yourself and if the truth be told sometimes family and friends can be a pain at the holidays, drinking too much, eating too much, getting bored and doing stupid things.

You should plan some special things for yourself that you enjoy, good stuff you like to eat, maybe doing some crafts you enjoy, go for a nice walk if the weather is permitting and just say a prayer of thanks and a blessing for the world.

You may think you don't have a lot to be thankful for because your parents are not very nice but that is not your problem.
Forget your family and move on and be all you can be and along the way you will meet nice people and find friendship and hope.

Make Christmas a crusade day for you to find the true meaning of Christmas and that is to be at peace with yourself and God.

Best wishes ....
Answered By: metallic moment - 12/19/2008
Visit friends, work in a soup kitchen, go to a resort, go skiing, read a good book, volunteer at a hospital or nursing home for the day
Answered By: Zookeeper - 12/18/2008
I undersand where your coming from, my parents were pettty much the same growing up.

Why not volenteer at the hosp christmas, dress up as santa... or why not go to a soup kitchen or homless shelter and help pass out food.

Of you can go to the movies and have a moviethon, there are TONS of cool movies comming out Christams day!
Answered By: jen - 12/18/2008
Hang out with friends, travel
Answered By: shantaerene - 12/18/2008
Well, that's about the most heartbreaking thing I think I've ever heard! That said, you sound like a great person despite such neglect and giving to others is truly what Christmas is all about. Since you've already done that, here's my suggestion: I personally don't care for Christmas music, but I love the many Christmas movies on TV right now...perhaps you could plan to get some take-out for yourself and find a particular channel on TV that'll be showing Christmas movies all day...just sit back and enjoy...If that's not feasible, go to the movie theatre and catch 1 or 2 new flicks...it's not uncommon for movie theatres to be busy on Christmas Day...Good luck and may God Bless!
Answered By: Dizzy - 12/18/2008
I spent Christmas alone last year because my family was visiting my grandparents in Switzerland and I had finals and no cash. I actually went to the local family shelter and offered to volunteer on Christmas and New Years. I've been singing and playing the piano for a long time, so I performed Christmas carols and got all the families singing with me. It was a ton of fun and really made me feel like I was apart of something. If you don't perform then I'm sure that they'll have ideas for you. Another fun thing would be to volunteer at that same children's hospital that you left the gift at.
Answered By: Trinity R - 12/18/2008
I would suggest starting your own little christmas, that's what i plan on doing this holiday.I cant remember the last time i celebrated any holiday with my family or even got a gift, O i do remember getting a bike when i was 5 lol i'm 18 now.The holidays can be a real bummer when it seems like every one is with family and friends but hang in there it will get better.My holiday remedy is buying myself gifts and decorating my place with christmas shit it makes me feel better about being alone.If u like to cook make yourself a home cooked meal and watch some tv but if u want to get out volunteer at a shelter or nursing home a lot of people there are in need of some holiday cheer too.good luck to
Answered By: brenda.moore73 - 12/18/2008
I have had to do that in the past, so I know what that is like. Christmas would probably be the hardest. I used the time just to reflect on my life and just to relax. Having family and friends is great, but as you know, they can also create a lot of stress and cause fights. So, use Christmas day to do something you like. Like other people said...read, go to a movie (Bedtime Stories looks cool ), or volunteer your time to the less fortunate. Remember, Christmas is just another day. The day will quickly pass and then life goes back to a routine. We eventually all have to go back to work, school, etc. I think it seems hard to be alone because everyone else always seem so happy and in love. Buying gifts has also become way overboard. People try to create this fake imaginary moment that lasts such a short time.

As far as New Year's is concerned, I've spend every New Year's alone for years. I really don't consider that a major holiday. I use the time to again reflect on my life and make resolutions that I will probably break...lol. I mean, I guess the alternative could be to get sloshed at a bar. But, the last time I went out with friends I think was 2001. It was so stressful. Every bar was crowded and full of idiots. All the amateurs seem to go out on New Year's eve. So, it is just safer and less of a hassle to stay at home.

Happy Holidays and God Bless you.
Answered By: Angrygirl5 - 12/18/2008
Well i dont celebrate christams so i really cant help u but do something fun live ur life once in awhile
Answered By: SexiiChika - 12/18/2008
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Answered By: mquestionforyou - 12/18/2008
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