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Ok im putting this qun. 4th time, plz answer?

Me & my bf working together from last 7 year & we were in relationship from last 5year,we were sharing very close relationship as he & me living alone for job so we go to each other’s home(it was like living together relation, we were physically involved) & so many times we spend 10 to 15 days together. Now last week he suddenly announced that he is getting merry with someone ales, even he didn’t talk with me that he wants to break this relation, when I asked him he told that he realize that I can’t mange with his family & he find someone ales who do that all this for him. As I we had physically relation from 4-5years, it feels so bad so I ask that why u didn’t think about all this things before he said “well its all just happened, im sorry for that.” Now he get married last Sunday, im feeling so bad bcoz,im feeling that im so fool I trust him a lot & he just used me like tissue prepare.im thinking to go his home & tell his wife & family that hi is a big cheater.he played with my emotions & my life, Do u think this will be right step??plz answer!!!

Asked By: kuku s - 12/23/2008
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hey kuku... More
Answered By: shekky - 12/24/2008
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Do what your heart tells you.
Answered By: ChoChoButterfly - 12/23/2008
 
No. Show him you're the better person by not even wasting your time. You'll save yourself some embarrassment.
Answered By: Lili555 - 12/23/2008
 
omg honey i feel so bad for you im sorry!! :[ well what i would do is go to his house when he is not there and ask to talk to his wife and tell her everything and how you feel and just end it with .. well thank you for talking to me about this i thought that you needed to know! well my best wishes are with you!!! good... More
Answered By: ♥CALIGIRL♥ - 12/23/2008
 
i think its cuz you guys got physical really soon and maybe you guys werent in love u shouldnt tell his family but instead talk to him about it if that doiesnt work out just pleez move on....dont stress about it everyone gets used at times its not fun but we gotta deal with it
Answered By: I♥TEDDY GIEGER - 12/23/2008
 
sounds like some R Kelly stuff right here. like trapped in the closet? anyway. I would cause a little drama in life. he ruined yours, right?
Answered By: sunnyd - 12/23/2008
 
This is why you don't sleep with anyone except your husband. Move on and leave him alone. Revenge is not the answer. Who knows what terrible things might happen. You would also be hurting his wife who didn't hurt you at all... More
Answered By: Mpeg4 - 12/23/2008
 
im really sorry... More
Answered By: notme - 12/23/2008
 
Yes! I think you should definitely tell her what he did. But, DON"T get into a fight with him or her. Just speak your mind without any physical aggression. I think you should get it off of your chest and I think he should be told on and embrassed. Even if it doesn't change the situation you'll feel better. Don't let... More
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Answered By: Krissy - 12/23/2008
 
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Almost the same thing happened to me a month ago, but I was with a guy for two years. My bf (at that time) dumped me by text on Thanksgiving and later gave me the excuse that it just happened. I was like w*f I didn't do anything wrong and this is what I get? Well to answer your... More
Answered By: Katy - 12/23/2008
 
Don't do it. Do you really think you're the only one he was screwing? Pick up the pieces and move on. She'll find out eventually when he starts cheating with someone else. Be the better person and realize it was a huge mistake in your life, you were used, but you're stronger and more selective about who you choose to... More
Answered By: livingdeadgirl - 12/23/2008
 
You have every reason to feel cheated and having been taken for a ride for so long. I wonder what the hell is wrong with girls who enter into physical relationships before marriage. Why don't you prepone marriage instead. It is like buying an apartment by paying upfront and not getting it registered in your name. You... More
Answered By: chandra s - 12/23/2008
 
Yes you are fool but you have to fight back, seven years is a long time you are basically his wife I thing you have many things to show you have relationship with him for that ling time... More
Answered By: all good - 12/23/2008
 
Though I am a man myself, I still advice u to go to his place, in the presence of his in-laws, bust open his infidelity. I'm sure u would be having some proof of u & him being together, (receipts if the clinic where u under went abortion) or something of that sort. He does not deserve to lead a peaceful life. Don't get... More
Answered By: rajan & rajan - 12/23/2008
 
Do not tell this to anyone........... this will harm your reputation........ don't mind but he has not only used you........ you have also participated equally so you are also wrong.......... forget everything and start your new life from scratch.......... now select that guys who does not cheats you... More
Answered By: Yours' true friend - 12/24/2008
 
SORRY... More
Answered By: pink rose - 12/24/2008
 
I think you should not go... More
Answered By: Ajit - 12/24/2008
 
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