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my goals are goin to take many, many years to accomplish, - should i GIVE UP?

plus my age to, 31 and the fact im so disadvantaged in life, by now i should be doing x yz , i feel so left behind....ive missed out all my life .. basically my biggest goal still is to emigrate from the uk to a DISTANT hot country , somewhere coastal and outside of europe ? think of anywhere with an easy immigration policy ? basically that is my only goal left....how can i fullfil this when ive been dependant all my life upon the system ? Should i give up because i cant take it anymore ? because my goals are to far away & difficult to reach? I wish there was a ' quick, easy ' way to achieve my goals - i cant bare it , can someone help ? people are acting like its the end of the road for me, sad expressions, like im a pitiful creature.....like im not gonna make it.. i dont wanna be veiwed as a charity case i dont wanna stay in the uk where everyone in the local commuinty has preconceptions of me and treats me as an outcast because of my rage problems in the past.. my looks are just ' not there ' anymore --- life stress has really taken its toll on me, ive aged in my face prematurly, im bald so i have head shaved. im 31 been through a hard life but my goals in life are still : to get a decent paid job in IT computers, then to move away from england , move over seas to a distant hot country , somewhere near the coast, someplace pretty distant from the uk. but i picture a long, difficult , hard path, with set backs, disappointments and disadvantages... this is my present situation : i am waiting for an operation to repair torn ankle ligaments due to an injury a year ago, will be in plaster for 6 weeks afterwards.. in general i have had a tough unfortunate life , missed out on everything : forming friendships / relationships , being employed , getting qualifications , doing anything , just having a life. youve lived all your life on disability, live in a one bedroomed small apartment owning very few possessions. suffer with borderline personality and ptsd , are not getting the therapy i want, which is psychotherapy because of no resources or funding, are dependent on the mental health system for help. ive been in jail in the past, have a criminal record 8 years ago, been in a mental hospital which you never should of gone to but did because you were crying out for help when you were a juvenile. those are my basic circumstances in the present, and all i can think about are my goals of leaving, never coming back.....but i feel overwhelmed thinking how ama get there , its gonna be long and difficult and im already 31......it might take too long. plus i simply do not want to tough it out in england long term.....i think i will slay myself or commit suicide , otherwise , how can i survive whilst im here ? ive aged prematurly in my face, look everyone of my 31 years if not older.....bald with shaved head etc. if i dont achieve my goals i wont be able to handle it, i will go to the nearest coastline in the uk, on the south coast , to a remote cliff top , get very drunk, and throw myself into the atlantic but first cut my neck open.

Asked By: beau ɧyɛɳa eʃ con∂or - 1/28/2009
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Answered By: hello there - 1/28/2009
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Have you tried Morris dancing? It can really help you.
Answered By: fozzy01 - 1/28/2009
 
You are never too old or too anything to reach your goals. The saddest thing is a dream not realized when you had the ability to reach that dream. Go for it. You can do anything that you want to do. Never ever give up... More
Answered By: annalyzedgourds - 1/28/2009
 
You are too young to give up on life... More
Answered By: maryjane.texas - 1/28/2009
 
never give up on your goals or yourself, it may take time to reach them, but in the end its always worth it, good luck!!!
Answered By: c m - 1/28/2009
 
Give up and do what for the rest of your life, you arn't even middle aged yet... More
Answered By: J. - 1/28/2009
 
it shouldn't take someone else to awnser this question for you, the real question that should be asked is: do you really want to do this as a career, and if so then it's always a no you should never give up on your dream.
Answered By: myersjonathon - 1/28/2009
 
Your "long term" goals may be to live in an exotic location and it's always good to have long term goals. These goals will always take a longer period of time and a lot of work, but it is something to look forward to... More
Answered By: jwfutbol - 1/28/2009
 
take as much time as you need. the long and tough battle will make it all the more worth your effort. and we shall have no more talk of cutting necks open or the like. ok?
Answered By: Mariel - 1/28/2009
 
Those years are going to go by if you do what you need to do or not so you might as well keep going for it. The trick is to do what you need to do without thinking of it.
Answered By: Magic M - 1/28/2009
 
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