Why is child support robbing us of our rights and our money when we work hard to support a child ?

	Why is child support robbing us of our rights and our money when we work hard to support a child ? What i am saying is dealing with the child support people robbing us of our money by charging us with arrears and interest when we as working mans work a job to support our child. Asked By: tyroby - 7/10/2009

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It depends on the cause of your arrears. If you refused, than you were asking for it, but if you were laid off for a time, than I can understand. There are no Government Outreach programs for fathers, like there are for mothers, to teach you how to get a child support modification, without the need to hire an attorney. With 80?f all layoffs being men, this is clearly a violation of the civil rights of fathers. Here's what you need to know in getting your child support modified when you face a situation like this. This will not affect any arrears already owning. Child Support Adjustments You need to know that the child support guidelines are not set in stone. They are just guidelines. You can make a case for not paying so much. 1988 Public Law Record SEC. 103. STATE GUIDELINES FOR CHILD SUPPORT AWARD AMOUNTS. (A)(a) GUIDELINES TO CREATE REBUTTABLE PRESUMPTION.-Section 467(b) of the Social Security Act is amended- (1) by inserting (1) after (b): (2) by striking, "but need not be binding upon such judges or other officials;" and (3) by adding at the end the following new paragraph: (4) "There shall be a REBUTTABLE presumption, in any judicial or administrative proceeding for the award of child support, that the amount of the award which would result from the application of such guidelines is the correct amount of child support to be awarded. A written finding or specific finding on the record that the application of the guidelines would be unjust or inappropriate in a particular case, as determined under criteria established the State, shall be sufficient to rebut the presumption is that case." You need to file a motion to modify your child support. If you are current in your support, you can do this by making an official request for a modification at the child support enforcement office under the provisions of Public Law 12. If there are arrears, contact the Clerk of the Court and request forms for filing for a modification, Pro Se. You will need to get a copy of the child support guidelines and worksheet from child support enforcement to determine if you have cause for a reduction. There needs to be at least a 20?ifference in his payment. NEVER pay your child support directly to the mother as it can be considered a gift and not support. Always pay threw the court. If you want to learn how to do all this go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. When you join, you’ll receive a link to an educational manual that will teach you what you need to know. Take the time to learn what you can and should do. http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/DadsHouse/ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZZkuqnQJVLM Answered By: - 7/11/2009

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So the state can make some money, that's why, that interest they are charging you is paying the enforcements salary. The system is messed up, if you ever fall behind you never seem to catch up, that's why so many just leave the country Answered By: HATE 2 PAY - 7/12/2009

Its simple after your ex rapes you in court then they allow the state to r**e you when you can't afford to pay the high over priced support payment. There is a HUGE difference between SUPPORTING your child and supporting you ex.. unfortunately, most of the time your supporting the ex. When you are the man ordered to pay the support they really don't give a crap what you make they will put you in at whatever they feel. It should be 50/50 for BOTH parents but it is NOT. The MAN is responsible for supporting the child and her and her financial responsibility is NOTHING! Funny how it took both of them to make the child but only the FATHER will have to support them! Need proof my ex makes 8.00 an hour (economy sucks!) works 40 hours a week and his support payment is 1,100.00 a month for two children. You do the math! You mean to tell me food and clothes are over 1k? Doubt it no way! That HIGH support payment is for her benefit not the children's! Answered By: uthink92 - 7/11/2009

The state paid for your child while you weren't paying the child support and went into arrears. So now you owe the child support for the present and you owe the taxpayers for supporting your child when you couldn't. Answered By: Sunshine - 7/10/2009

Don't breed IF you can afford to support your spawn. Dead Beat Dad's with Excuses SUCK ! Answered By: ducky aka Mr Duck - 7/10/2009

Nobody is robbing you of any rights. You owe child support. Arrears is money you owed that you didn't pay. Interest is your cost of paying late, just like (but a much lower rate than) what happens if you don't pay your Visa on time. Pay your support, support YOUR child, and you won't have to pay arrears OR interest. Answered By: quizzard123 - 7/10/2009

Sunshine is right. You might be angry about it but it's your child, so it's your responsibility. When you don't take responsibility, everyone else pays. Do you think we are happy about about getting 'robbed' to pay for your child, who is not our responsibility, when you don't have a job or don't bother paying? Answered By: skahoj - 7/10/2009

Probably because your view of what a man should do to support a child is grossly different that the view of society and its elected representatives. If you father a child you are responsible for caring for and supporting that child. Married parents understand that and will make every decision based on the needs of the child. If you can't understand that role of a parent, then get a vasectomy. Answered By: laughter_every_day - 7/10/2009

First off, to a reply above, when you don't make your payments, the state does not make them for you. The other parent does not see a dime until payments are made by the other parent. Interest on arrears goes straight to the state, not the other parent. Now I understand what you mean, as there are times when no matter how hard you try it is hard, especially for blue collar families. My husband was making $1400 before taxes a month, and he had to pay over $300 a month. We had our own home and children to care for, and the job my hubby had was all he could find, in fact the highest paying job in our area at the time that he could do. In the end, we couldn't afford child care to have me go to work, so I was a stay at home mom. Even with assistance we just got by. In the end if you split what my hubby made between us and the child support, well, we were paying more in child support, then what we had to support each person in the home. Yet the mother was married and had her income and her husbands income, that without child support equaled more then what we made. This was the state of CA doing this, although I have found out not all states will do this. If the other parent makes less then the one with the child, they will make an order of $50, or straight out $0. Although it is a responsibility to care for your child, should the children in your home suffer and have things taken from them to support your other child who is in a secure home even before they recieve child support? Thankfully we moved and are doing much better, as well as we have my stepson living with us now too. We don't recieve a dime in CS, and although we want an order for her to pay (she says she shouldn't and wouldn't pay,) we could care less if she pays now that there is an order. Our children and my stepson gets everything they need and more, and I'll tell you, it is much easier to properly care for a child in your own home, then pay child support that can be overpriced. Answered By: ~Flick~ - 7/10/2009

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