How much time can my wife spend with a male co-worker and it be deemed appropriate?

She is away on a job and spends a few nights a week, and most of the weekends with him. She lied about being in his Hotel room until 3:30 one night, drinking. But she is not having a physical affair.

Asked By: Curious - 8/8/2009
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker
Talk to her. The dumbest thing married people do is not talk. Tell her how her actions make you feel. Do not accuse her of anything. She might have lied because she didn't want you to get jealous. Still, make sure she knows she can tell you anything, because if she doesn't know that, you're in trouble... More
Answered By: Mana - 8/8/2009
Additional Answers (15)
Time to start getting ready to say goodbye
Answered By: BOBBY O - 8/8/2009
Were you there to witness them "not having a physical affair?" Because being in a coworker's hotel room drinking till 3:30 in the morning and then lying about it are pretty indicatory signs that she's not being totally faithful... More
Answered By: Riah - 8/8/2009
He is most likely banging your wife. Prepare the divorce papers!!
Answered By: MandM - 8/8/2009
Baloney.If she was in his hotel room at 3:30 A.M. they weren't playing old maid or go fish.Tell her after work she can start coming home and no more week ends with him because the next time she does not come home after work or hangs out with him,her crap will be packed when she gets home and she can move in with him.
Answered By: Joe F - 8/8/2009
How do you know that she's not having an affair? She was in his hotel room until 3:30am. Don't be stupid, get a P.I. and then get a lawyer if it shown that she is indeed cheating on you.
Answered By: will i cya - 8/8/2009
Im married. I spend time with male co-workers during business hours at work and at work-related social events, only. Not interested in spending any more time with them, certainly not drinking in a hotel room with them at 3 am. That is what I might do if I was single, or cheating... More
Answered By: Baby's got blue eyes - 8/8/2009
You should change your name to Furious..You've been had!
Answered By: zzzzz - 8/8/2009
Wow you are slow. You do know what happens to women when you get enough alcohol in them? Besides if she had to lie she is cheating on you. Sorry about your luck... More
Answered By: coffee mug - 8/8/2009
Are you serious? She was in his room at 3:30 AM and you still trust her. Wake up, they ARE having an affair.
Answered By: Annie - 8/8/2009
whoa. She may be having an affair. You need to get the truth out of her.
Answered By: SexyCharlotteGirl - 8/8/2009
In a work area type of association it might be deemed necessary to do. If these work nights are being too frequent then you have some communication to do. If the lady comes home and still has time for you I wouldn't worry unless she is coming home drunk.
Answered By: Larry M - 8/8/2009
If you're certain she's not having an affair why are you worried about it?
Answered By: Poppy - 8/8/2009
just an emotional affair...never alone in a Hotel with another man while you ar married!! First clue "lied"...why not just tell the truth? You afraid you did something wrong? Appropriate???
Answered By: Dannygirl is... - 8/8/2009
Answered By: Paul - 8/8/2009
Listen to your gut feeling.
Answered By: MayO - 8/8/2009
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