do you think there's any hope in my case?
im 32 , white and from england. for many years ive felt people in the community treat me like some sort of outcast or THREAT , stand-offish , unfriendly mannerisms towards me by members of the public , funny confrontational glares by black and asian bad-boy types whilst out in the streets, fixed glares by them while there in their cars.... unfriendly cold , unfavourable manners by shop clerks, shop workers , other members of the public etc. i really dont understand whats going on, like seriously. i could understand it many , many years ago, when i had severe aggression problems, and blind rage public outbursts a lot to do with PTSD and personality disorders because of victimisation in earlier life. - but ive controlled those rages for many years now , been dedicated in getting help, the right mental health treatment....im still waiting for psychotherapy. but altogether for about 7 years , ive live in my own 1 bedroom apartment on disability, owning few possessions , trying to do my best, cooperate with what the mental health services want.....controlling the aggression....managing in my flat. i haven't had the easiest of lives, faced a lot of adversities as well as hard psychological difficulties, missed out on things like - forming relationships , being employed , having qualifications and most other things. been in jail 11 years ago for violent conduct, been in a mental hospital. have a tough history. but ive managed to survive to hear, yes naturally aloof and unsocial, but ive been working on it for years , being more friendly and social....making efforts with the public. life gets very lonely living alone, having no social support, very few family and hard struggles to face. all i want to do is try to aspire to my goals of getting a decent paid computer job....then i would like to buy a home in a quiet coastal village near the sea , build a few relationships - those are my goals. but for years i still face this problem of people treating me like a social outcast. threatening looks etc. i mind my own business , don't bother anybody just want to survive and achieve my hopes. but its difficult when everything seems to be against you. my aggressive outbursts ive controlled for years, so i might have a serious expression or come across as aloof or whatever , but thats just me...its not a crime to look serious.....and i haven't exactly had a lot to smile about have i ? anyone got a clue what im gonna do ?
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Alas, I have endured some unbelievable and unspeakably stressful conditions myself, so I can sympathize with you. Here are a few suggestions... More
Answered By: Craig - 1/19/2010
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just keep working on getting better. be sure to see a therapist weekly and youll get better. there are medications an such that you can take that will help you. you can defiantly get through this there is no doubt in my mind. best of luck
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Answered By: prwagner3 - 1/19/2010
dont expect everyone in the world to smile at you all the time. i bet people you see every day dont scowl or anything and if you dont see people regularly then try to get out more and go to the same places so people will recognise you and stuff... More
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