how do i accept being ugly as a girl?
I'm 18 years old and I'm not pretty at all. I don't look very feminine at all. I have a square jawline, which is a masculine trait i know. Also I have short hair, not super short but like an inch or two longer than shoulder length and very thin: I've tried everything to grow it long for years but it breaks unforunately so it never gets longer. I'm sort of slim (5'5 and 110) but I don't have a good figure. I have no boobs not even AA and I carry most of my weight on my butt and thighs. I feel really bad about my appearance. I absolutely hate going out in public. Almost every girl I see is better looking than me, they have longer hair, bigger boobs, prettier faces, I can't compare, and I feel extremely jealous, even just watching tv makes me jealous of those women. Basically being ugly is ruining my life. I look in the mirror so many times each day and hate what I see. I worry sometimes that no guy will ever like me bc i'm so ugly, I'm turning 19 in a few months and have never even been asked out for a guy. I'm not asking for advice on make myself prettier, because I've already spent thousands of dollars on hair extensions, color contacts, make-up etc.. But it just makes me fake. I just want to know how do I accept myself naturally as the ugly woman I am? and not feel so depressed about it all the time and jealous of average or pretty looking girls who have boyfriends and stuff.
Asked By: heather - 4/27/2010
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If fake makes you prettier, whats wrong with fake? I don't think you should ever accept yourself as ugly, no matter what you see in the mirror. It's not a healthy mindset and will not only keep you depressed, it will affect your life in other ways..work performance, being secure in your relationships, etc. Bottom line... More
Answered By: YaddaYadda - 4/27/2010
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Answered By: Joanna L - 4/27/2010
Sweetie--ugly is in the eye of the beholdler-your true love wont care--give your self time and wait--he will come---and DONT think so much
Answered By: mkluckhohn - 4/27/2010
If you develop a beautiful personality it will glow through you to others and they will see you as beautiful too.
Answered By: just me - 4/27/2010
just be what you were born to be. everyone has a role in life. remember, ugly people get "sympathy" and they can use it to their advantage. I myself am pretty, but i feel like i only cause trouble in this world, i am always upsetting people, they are suspicious of me. i belong nowhere. my friends used to make cruel... More
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