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Stress over job and school. How do I get rid of it?

For those who are done with college, how did you deal with the stress during the first few years of colllege, like balancing your studying and looking for a job?
Money is like the biggest thing I need right now but no one's hiring.
And studying is such a hassle, but something I force myself to do.
How do I balance? I'm getting so much stress from this.

Asked By: QueenB - 9/7/2010
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Always remember that even if you have a lot of work to do, all-nighters aren't all they're cracked up to be. Your work will be crappy and really slow if you're running on no sleep. It's more economical to get that sleep - your work will be more efficient (quality+speed) when your brain works right.

I was once working my ass off on a programming project. A friend was nagging me to come over and play guitar hero with him. I said hell no, I'm working, trying to solve this issue in my code. I was so frustrated I took him up on it, went to his apartment, slammed a shot of vodka (at 2pm) and rocked out in my underwear. This lightened my mood so much that I had a clear head when I went back to work I was instantly able to solve the problem.
- - So I guess the moral is, give your brain a break now and then. But don't use it as an excuse to procrastinate.

Go dumpster diving, but NOT for food. Are you at or near a rich kid college? Find out when their dorms' move-out dates are. Scope it out, Pillage, return home with furniture/stereo/computer monitor/clothing/household goods. Their wastefulness and procrastination is your free shit. And since it's all THINGS and not trash being thrown out in huge quantities on the same day, it's all clean unless it rains.

Other tips:
- Stress is good for you. Take it as a challenge and use it as motivation. EAT IT. SH1T VICTORY.
- Ebay-sell anything with a brand name, take good pictures.
- Sell used panties and stockings to perverts on Craigslist
- Restrain consumption. You don't need to buy that. (TV, furniture, shoes, everything)
- Get one frying pan or saucepan at the thrift store. Don't bother buying any housey junk, most college kids (your potential roommates) stock up on way too much of that anyway.
- shoplift cans of soup
- buy a 15 lb bag of rice in chinatown
- bike to do your errands. you get your stuff done but you get exercise at the same time. you feel better when you get a little workout. You'll be so busy with work that when vacation time comes, you'll say "when the hell did I get so hot?"
- party not more than weekly
- Professors like to teach. Ask them questions if you're stuck or confused
- drink horrifyingly cheap liquor, such as Vladimir vodka and Old Smuggler whiskey. it will make you less enthusiastic about drinking, but very buzzed/drunk when you're going for it. If you're a wuss for flavor, go for 99 Apples.
- Get all the perks possible out of your job, when you find one. Eat customers' leftovers. Take binders and paper so you don't have to buy them. Pride is not a priority.
- Be amazing at everything you do, and likeable to boot. Sincerity gets you tips at work and special considerations from Instructors (extended deadline, sorry I'm late, etc - use sparingly)
- Subscribe to Courage_Wolf on Twitter
- Use vinegar to clean your home. It's cheaper and less harmful than cleaning products.
- Keep an eye on newsletters for senior shows, openings, and other events that will have FREE FOOD.
- http://community.livejournal.com/poor_skills/
- http://community.livejournal.com/poor_skills/tag/cooking
Answered By: - 9/8/2010
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Relax you dont want to trip over your own shoes.
just take things slow and keep a eye on the paper for jobs :)
Answered By: James hu - 9/7/2010
The best i can say to you is settle down and put on your seatbelt, its gonna be a bumpy ride. i just got out of the military last year and im going to college now myself, been in college for a year and i have a job on top of that.i work and do college full time. leads alot to little sleep and high stress levels. the important thing is to decide whats really important to you.with a job and school you need to decide with your time off, are you gonna study or go to the movies with your man. you gottahave your fun but you need to keep your eye on the ball. while working full tme ive made presidents list alost every semester.
Answered By: johnny b - 9/7/2010
Like many others you are capable of doing both things gracefully. Don't imagine and magnify your stress of studies. Prefer mental rehearsals more then reading many times. Read less and remember more is the concept. If you dislike subjects your brain wont retain more information about it or you will have to struggle to remember.Love you studies as that's what is going to give you your identity.So if you have a habit of mental rehearsals you need not sit in one place for studying, on the contrary you can study anywhere and everywhere. i used to picturise the answer as if cutting copying and pasting it in my brains, so i don't need notes or book to rehearse

Learn to give 100 ?o what you are doing may it be study of work. that will improve your output and lastly believe you can do much more than what you think that too gracefully.Don't underestimate your potential. you will do it i know.
Answered By: dinesh k - 9/7/2010
I can understand that money is the big issue in such a situation.There is nothing to worry about anythng dear.
Try to learn new thngs and make your self involve in them.This will help you to come our of stress aa well as you will learn thngs.
If possible than do some mantra chanting also.Good vibrations will also help you and will silent your mind as well.This will you to learn thins easily.
Get any CD of mantra chanting and start it today.
All the Good wishes to you from my side.
One more thing ..you can get the Cd of the same from www.Gurumaa.com.Start with pranav chanting that is OM.
Answered By: Angel Jose - 9/7/2010
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