What is the probability that this woman could be a lesbian?

	What is the probability that this woman could be a lesbian? Based on observations from my current job (it's an IT work environment where we have plenty of time to kill and bosses don't seem to mind :), I developed this unique theory to predict the orientation of my female colleagues. Don't take it very seriously now, this just happens to be one of those silly ideas you entertain when bored to death:) First, category A females - these are the ones that tend to be not just 100?traight but also borderline nymphomaniac. I ALWAYS find them in the company of men. At my office, All the "A"'s are married but they constantly crave attention from men. Also, you'll find them b**tching about other females. The "A's" tend to trust men more than they'd trust other women. That's why you'll find them surrounded by men all the time. Statistically, A's may be 17-20?n my office. Then, you have category B. Now, they're easy to predict coz they have both male and female friends and don't seem to have any gender preference while hanging out. Most "B"'s look perfectly straight but some could be bi-sexual but cannot be outright lesbian. Statistically, category B should be 50? Then, you have category C. These are the females who either have a very low self-esteem when talking to men or are deeply committed to their husbands/boyfriends. Most of them tend to be alone and mind their own business. They don't get involved in any extra-curricular activities. "C"'s could be straight, lesbian, asexual or just plain retarded. Statistically, they're 10?here I work. Now, coming to category D - not only these X phenotypes remain aloof from men, they also wouldn't trust us even if their life depended on it. These are exclusive girl gangs, usually in pairs of two's or threes. I swear to God I never see them even smile at other men. So, heres this one woman shows all the signs of being in category D who I fancy. Am I right in guessing she could be a lesbian? Asked By: Wayne - 9/9/2010

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No, you have established social groupings very well but these are character types rather than sexual preferences and character types occur in all walks of life, genders, races and sexuality. I am straight but have lesbian friends and can tell you that they are all a mix of B C & D like everyone else but admittedly not A. I have also noticed these groupings as well but have a different perspective. Here's mine. A) the man's woman - low self esteem, bases everything on looks, judges her own self worth by how many men she can attract. Has no interest in other women apart from as people to go out with while seeking men and therefore has no understanding of real friendship and has bad judgment with relationships of all kinds. B) The people person - someone who is sociable and quite confident and likes to talk to everyone male and female - often has no closest friends at work but does have good friends of both sexes and a large aquaintance. As you say these are the majority and include straight and lesbian women. C) The introverts - these women often have a small number of close friends and a partner of either sex and are well loved but do not have a large circle of aquaintances because this is hard work and not enjoyable for introverts. They aim at being pleasant and private at work and are usually respected for this but not, I gather by you. I disagree that they have low self esteem tho some do of course. Introverts avoid chit chat because they don't enjoy it rather than from insecurity. D) The woman's woman - seen in groups of women, gravitate towards women as potential friends rather than men due to enjoying female conversation and interests more. This group includes me and one of my group B friends pointed out to me that I only make friendly overtures to women and never to men. This is not due to any lack of trust but a typically female range of interests and my few male friends also have these interests - evaluating and analysing people, health, diet, books by female authors etc etc. This group contains both straight and lesbian women but I admit a lesbian woman's woman is less likely to seek friendships with men while a hetero woman's woman will have reason to try to get to know some men better. These groupings also work for men? - A)The woman's man who does anything to get his leg over including betraying and blowing out male friends - not well thought of by men generally. B) the average bloke with friends of both sexes.C) the introverted man exactly as women private and keeps to himself but has strong friendships and romantic relationships.D) the man's man who is considered good company by men and typically blokey. Has lots of male friends and usually a girlfriend but no female friends - my husband is this man. It is a mistake to assume lesbians have no interest in male friendships because they are not attracted to them. As you point out most people are group B and this includes lesbians. Answered By: Helena - 9/9/2010

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You my friend are the lesbian. Answered By: Doodlebugjimv12 - 9/9/2010

Not necessarily - catagory D may have a lot of women in it that were terribly hurt by men and are still attracted to them, just not right now. Answered By: Kerbear - 9/9/2010

A has low self esteem btw. Why would you think C has low self esteem just because they don't flirt with men? They sound like the most normal, and that's probably why they make up the majority of women. I will give you a star because it was thought provoking... I doubt that girl is a lesbian. She is just aloof by the looks of it and probably nice looking, sick of being hit on so they stay away as men only want one thing. Answered By: Iggy [who got me suspended?] - 9/9/2010

Lesson 1 -- putting people in categories is wrong. We are all individuals not some archetypes that people expect. Lesson 2 -- You should get a job that keeps you busier so you don't dream up questions like this that are impossible to answer. Answered By: Julia - 9/9/2010

Well any of the woman in in those category's could be a lesbian. But chances are the D types are just feminist's. Answered By: Eyun Jones - 9/9/2010

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