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I am a software engineer. I am working with a company since 4 yrs. I do not talk much with others. One of the reason of it is: I always feel I am a failure in my life. I am always in a very frustrated mood. Because I am not good at coding. Now I am afraid of the coding. I have a fear in my mind that anytime I will be get fired from office. I am trying hard to write good coding. But I have limitations. I feel I am just good for nothing. I really don't know how I will overcome it? I am also trying for bank PO. But still not getting success. That is another thing. Now my major problem is I want to get out of this frustration. At least I have to find out a way to live. If I get bank PO job then its very good otherwise I have to do something for myself and also for my family. If I could alone then I may commit suicide but I have my family. I can't do that even if I want. Now the appraisal time starts in our company. One-to-One meeting will held from next week. Will it be fine if I will disscuss all these(what I have written above) with my team Lead. How he will react. Will he fire me?? Please suggest something.

Asked By: - 1/7/2011
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No my dear friend, I am also a B.tech engineer, and working with a SEO company.Dont feel bad. Even also i am not good in coding. But i try every time. and for coding commit suicide, please.. i thing really similar with you, I am also trying for Bank P.O. Just try friend I know you will get your success.One more thing... More
Answered By: Polon Tech - 1/11/2011
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Answered By: Sonu - 1/7/2011
 
No, he wont fire you. Take Yoga classes to remove frustration.
Answered By: Whiz Websiter - 1/7/2011
 
Suicide ???? For bad coding skills ? Not worth... More
Answered By: sach - 1/7/2011
 
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