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What are your issues within the foster system?

I am a seventeen year old foster youth and would like to know any issues you have within the foster system-please feel free to answer whether you a a foster youth, foster parent, or just someone who would like to add their input.

I would really like to know so that I can try to address some of the issues and make a change!

Asked By: Jazmin - 2/11/2011
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Have you or your foster parents ever tried to contact your CW? What do you get when you call? Voice mail...right? Do they return the call in 24, 48, 72 hours? Never! It's weeks later, maybe.

Number one thing for me would be - How DFS and CPS is funded and managed.

CPS is a government run agency. Like most any govt agency, they have to show they have a requirement to support the funding and that they are managing the "expected" numbers efficiently. This creates an unofficial "quota" of children in care within the county. After all, there is a limited number of foster homes any state can fund, a limited number of CPS agents and social workers. These numbers have to be managed. All government agencies run like this.

The result:
When they have too many kids on the system, upper mgmt will push cases quicker then expected to close the case in order to reduce volume and make the department appear like they are functioning efficiently. This meaning, they risk reuniting a child with an abusive parent or relative before the parents "plan" is completed (or even started), or place the child with a relative before a homestudy is complete (hoping for the best), or fast-track the TPR process so the foster parents have the option to adopt (or not). They need to reduce the numbers.

When there are too few kids in the system, in order to secure and justify enough funding for the next year (and keep their jobs), CPS agents are instructed to become more aggressive in investigations and include things that would normally be dismissed. Such as, a disorderly home or surroundings, and less cooperative parents. We're all heard and read about CPS agents removing children and making a ruling based on very silly things - like calling a home with dirty dishes in the sink, an unfit habitat for children. When you read outrageous reports of CPS aggression against a family, my guess is that 9 times out of 10, it's because they need to increase the numbers.

End result: CPS isn't "all about protecting the best interests of the kids and families". That's just what they want people to think. It's about using kids as an excuse to maintain acceptable statistics. If you do a little digging on google, you'll find dozens and dozens of EX-social workers that support this claim. It's the number one reason why social workers quit!

CPS / DFS also needs to be more diligent, and investigate a private agencies motivations when presented with 3rd party reports. A somewhat new practice that is emerging is private (for profit) agencies are becoming underhanded in securing adoptable babies through foster care.

Licensed adoption agencies can request a list of adoptable placements. If that agencies is licensed by the state, this is legal and typical, and the names of the foster parents are often included with this list. (i have verified this with a couple of now ex-foster parents) With this information, an agency can legally hire a private investigator to try to dig up dirt on the foster parents themselves, beyond that of the original homestudy or background check. They present their findings (justified or not) as "mandated reporters" to DFS.

Heres the catch. They only seem to do this to foster parents that have "newly adoptable infants" (most likely white infants), and they always seem to have a parent "ready and willing" to take the child if DFS decides to remove the child from the current home, pending further investigation. After all, they know that any claims against a foster parent by law must be investigated. End result, the agency get's PAID, and has a happy client, DFS is protected by "following proceedures", and the original foster parent - no matter how good they may be - are left to twist in the wind, broken hearted, and with ZERO legal protection or representation. The ONLY agencies that should be able to adopt children through foster care should be NON-PROFIT agencies. If you remove profit from the equation, you remove the primary reason for corruption.

Number two on my list would be that funding be made available for foster youth to join athletic programs and youth programs beyond those that are offered in public schools. Such as competitive swimming teams, gymnastics, soccer leagues, etc. The cost of these programs is typically beyond the reach of many foster parents, and is excluded from any stipend or allowable reimbursements.

I can go on and on and on. But those would be my highest priorities.


@Andersen: Aftercare ETV's, scholarships and grants ARE available to foster youth! The problem is they don't tell anyone they exist. The child needs to find them, and apply for them themselves. (which I can tell you is a major PITA every semester!!) They aren't "offered" and often hidden from view. I attend a University. My tuition, books, and even my room/board costs are 100?overed. I don't have any student loans.
Answered By: Wildgrl - 2/12/2011
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Here in the uk the system is UNBELIEVABLY SLOW. I know of cases where the foster carer has brought the baby home form hospital and they still have the baby months later. The baby finally went to a new mummy and daddy age 21 months. The baby was the 4th child to be removed from its bio mother because she was abusive. Why so long the baby was never going to be given back to the bio mother..
Answered By: P Booo - 2/12/2011
As a very long term foster parent I have no issues with our state foster care system---I am also still involved. After reading the other answers I feel very fortunate in living and working with foster parents!!!! We actually have a legal foster parents law that supports us and that can be 'reckoned' with.
We do not have any requirements to work with bio families or even for them to contact us if We wish not to be contacted. We have no responsibilities to transport or supervise visits---they pay for those services. A bio parent has no right to our names or addresses if we wish it that way---we have a right too. We do not set up any appt with parents---that's what the workers and transporters get paid for.
Higher Education is available free to state universities as are scholarships free.
Calls are returned promptly. If we have a problem with a worker ---we contact Their supervisor and we cc our foster parent support specialist who is their 24 hrs a day to help us work through the system and to get what we need for our kids in care. She is Not afraid of the system---in fact she thrives on it getting us what we need. She knows how to navigate the system.

Our foster parent law was set in place by our state government and yearly we update out system of laws. We have a voice and we are being heard.

Regarding paperwork---it will always be there. We welcome it!!! If it isn't written down ---it didn't happen!!!! It is there to protect the foster parent in any kind of disagreement---and granted that will happen.

At the present I'm happy---if not I have a voice and when the foster parent law is redone at he end of this year I have a chance to make my voice heard as a foster parent.
Answered By: cricketlady - 2/12/2011
Hi! I am a foster parent. I have had good experiences mostly, but here are some issues:

1. Too much responsibility placed on the foster parent to do non-parenting tasks. I have to do paperwork every single day. It is my responsibility to contact the mother to arrange visits as often as possible and transport to the visits with mother, father, grandparents, and siblings (granted, I was the one encouraging all that visitation, so I guess I could have backed off). Between that and doctor visits, specialized clinics, speech therapy, etc., I was awfully busy.

2. The system moves too slowly. Decisions need to be made quickly - reunify or terminate. I strongly support reunification wherever possible but if a parent is going to try, she will usually try hard and fast (though her efforts may drift off). If she doesn't try immediately, I support rapid termination. Children need permanency as soon as possible.

3. Moving for silly reasons need to stop. Just today I found out that 2 little ones I fostered are being moved to their 5th foster home next week. They are barely 2 and 3 years old. They were moved from my home to their most recent home (their 4th) 5 months ago because it was expected to be their adoptive home. However, somebody had overlooked a certain fact that made the home ineligible to adopt, and now the children will have to be moved. This is very unhealthy for these little guys.

4. The state should pay for 16 year olds to get auto insurance . As it is now, foster kids rarely get their driver's license, so they have a hard time getting a job. In my state, they have to present proof of insurance to get a license, and most foster parents won't pay for the insurance (very expensive, more than the stipend). We can't raise these kids to be independent if they can't drive.

5. Aftercare for kids who have aged out of the system needs to be improved. I think they should be able to attend state universities free.

Hope that helps.
Answered By: Andersen - 2/11/2011
Too many kids needing too little space available.
Answered By: 7rin - 2/11/2011
Everything Andersen said plus;

Vetting and monitoring of foster parents needs to be stricter.

The child's education *must* be a priority. Bouncing around homes usually means bouncing around schools too. If there's not a good reason to move, then don't move, simple as that.

Kids should never be allowed just to "age out" of the system and be left to fend for themselves - I don't know about the US, but here in UK there's often little support and the rate of homelessness, unemployment and criminality is disproportionately high.

I'm going back a long way here, maybe they've improved but.....group homes scared me stiff. The total lack of privacy, the fighting, stealing, bullying. Conditions need to be improved.

Most importantly to me, children need to be heard. Whether it's their views on possible reconciliation, adoption, their foster/group home, their concerns, needs, fears need to be properly listened to by someone who can actually help, rather than a therapist who just tries to change the child, not the situation.

And finally, a parent who abuses/neglects their child may improve with support and education. But to give them chance after chance after chance is just wrong. The needs and the protection of the child must come first.
Source(s):
Adopted from foster, husband aged out, 3 of our children are foster-adopted.
Answered By: gnsmith1970 - 2/11/2011
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