need man and women point of view of who has time to read my situation?
First off, My boyfriend and I met at my job . He was always the nice cute guy coming at my job. One day he went on a date and we just became so into each other. Then we became boyfriend and girl friend (just adding Im a capricorn and he is a Gemini). We were so fond of each other. Then he went on a three weeks vacation to see family and to travel because he love to travel. Then when he came back he's like he is going to move to California in a month. I was like hold up didn't we just get into a relationship. He wanted to move to California to become an actor by the way So he tried to break up with me thru text :(. So he could go to California. Then one day out the blue, he called me saying he sorry for breaking up with me. After that he said he was not going to California because he was in love with me. Mind you he had quite his job and cancel his lease and everything. Now he started living with me. It was great at first. Every weekend I would go down to see my parents. And he knew that, but started acting up because he wanted me to stay for the weekend. ( I didnt introduce him yet to my parents because of personal reasons with my family). He started acting funny. Saying that he felt like I was dating my parents because I was always doing what they wanted me to do and at the time I was afraid of telling them about him While he was living with me I was helping him pay some of his bills and falling back on mines because I just in away felt guilty that he gave up his life to be with me. The story goes on with me finding out I was pregnant (7 weeks). Then I suffered a miscarriage and we were said about that. Like some couples who wanted to have a baby, we decided to make me pregnant again. I felt like after the miscarriage he started changing alot. He became mean. Even after it was confirmed that I was pregnant he started really changing. I started getting forgetful while I was pregnant a lot and I became sleepy a lot too and that started making him mad. Like he didnt he didnt realize that was some of the pregnancy symptoms. While pregnant he started saying that I dont know how to make him happy and that he felt like he had to always tell me what to do. I must admit I wasn't big on cooking but I did cook for him and he help me clean my room because he was there most of the time while i was at work and until he got a new job. He became frustrated with me with my little habits and I became frustrated with him because I knew he had alot of women as friends. So he basically liked women. When we went to the grocery store he would look at other women and I would say I dont like that. Then later on the relationship he would say that he looked at other women because I gave him nothing to hold on too and he wasn't happy with me. I forgot to mention that I put up with him abusing. He slapped me around while pregnant a couple of times and I had a busted lip and blood clots in my eyes. I put up with it because my parents were upset with me and they drop me like a piece of potato. So I felt like I had nobody and felt depressed because I felt sorry for myself. He acted lilke I dont do anything. When every morning I tried making breakfast for him. Anything that I could do to make him happy I was eager to do. But with everything I did he always found some error in it. I did alot for him on the financial side. I was behind my bills, ibrought everything in our old apartment. ( the bed, the mattress, chest of drawers and I can go on and on. I brought the grocery. Everytime we went to papa johns, pollo tropical, Kfc,whole foods I paid!!! I pratically gave up my life for someone. Who claim I dont do enough for him. I dont give him nothing to hold on too. Who was very jealous, might I add. He checked my email, phone and laptop as if my sad depressed self had the time to fool around dealing with him. I felt stuck. Then one day I had the courage to live with the help of friends and he ended up cutting his wrists because he said he did not want to live without his family ( me, him and our daughter). I just dont know why I cared for someone that treated me good one day and **** like the next. Am I wrong to miss someone like that and is there any one ever got over an abusive relationship like this??? 1
Asked By: Marie - 6/11/2011
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This was a long one. I felt compelled to answer as it must be serious (and it was) and you wanted guys and girls opinion and I saw 2 girls and there might not be another answer as the 2 girls answer were right on it. ALSO what guy wants to read a long one, j/p... More
Answered By: Stephan T - 6/11/2011
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Yes. You are better off without this man. He has issues that are his own. He has no business being in a relationship with anyone until he gets his life together. He is in no position to be a responsible role model for your child. There is hope. You will get over the hurt in time, there is simply no quick fix in that... More
Answered By: Violette - 6/11/2011
Run! Don't look bad and Run. And I do not condone ever keeping a child away from a parent but I would keep your daughter away from him he is harmful to himself and you who says he wont be to your daughter. There are great men out there you will find a wonderful man that will love you respect you and love your daughter... More
Answered By: Sassy - 6/11/2011
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