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Things not going well in life, I'm suicidal, need advice & opinions?

I'm 21, I live in a small town (population around 20,000) I have a casual job which I have had for the past year on checkout at a supermarket & the hours are bad (10 a week) it's the worst kind of customer service job you could have & the supervising checkout operators are horrible to me & others. I'm at the point where I dread going to work for the few hours I get & am almost in tears at points while serving. I have good referees & am a slim good looking, well dressed, well spoken & well mannered guy who a lot of customers like as well as people because I am so pleasant. Still though, every job here goes to someone the employer knows (it's a very big case of it's not what you know, it's who you know in this town) I want to move away (Have my own car) but the thing is with not much savings & no one to go with I think being fragile I will crumble, I don't wanna apply for an internal transfer because I need to get out of this hell hole line of work so w*f do I do? If I stay here I am going to go mental & not save anything & will not be able to move out from home but if I go away I will crumble if things get tough (which they will) & will have no one. And as for sex & relationships I was more focussed on study at school & didn't really get out & socialize I am still a virgin, & I cannot get a girlfriend for the same reason as getting a job (the in group of young people around my age have more chance than an average joe like me which is total bullsh*t cos most of the people in this popular society aren't even attractive!!) I am wondering if I should even bother, what a loser I am, leaving it this long & now I won't lose it to a one night stand because I have left it so long & now I have my head screwed on with all the diseases going around & pregnancy..... All I want in life is to have a decent career, good income & a house, wife & kids by the time I am 30.... Is my life worth living?

Asked By: Lucas - 10/27/2011
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Answered By: Reach Out - 10/27/2011
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if you need someone who would help you with your problems.. this person will help you.. she has helped me and given me life advices for free :) mysimplelifetoday@yahoo.com she helped me with my probs and all went great after contacting her :)
Answered By: lo - 10/27/2011
 
have you thought about going to uni and getting a degree? that would lead the way to a better job and more opportunity's.
Answered By: Astra - 10/27/2011
 
First of all, if you dread going to work, then that job isn't for you. Get rid of it, but try to find another job first. I have walked off so many jobs because of how shitty they were. Don't put up with it... More
Answered By: tnawwscc - 10/27/2011
 
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