Share

Can you change a person?

My brother runs a currently unprofitable business. he's quite an intelligent person (and i mean....among the smartest 'brilliant' kinda person).....he has great ideas and if everything falls in place, he has the potential to make it big. he's nice, caring, loving son/bro.

but there are few major probs that we are facing.

1. he's been transferring funds from our mum's saving w/o her knowledge - his business is currently not making profits. he constantly needs money for office supplies, employee salary....in 3 months he's taken some 3,000$ as loan. it's a joint a/c bet him n our mum.
when i ask him why he can't tell mum about it....he just replies that he'll inform the collective amount when we do our taxes and if he manages to repay some amount, he'll not tell about that amount.
the only defense i can give from his side is that my mum can be quite unreasonable. for her, it's always about finishing education, going for a job.....starting your own business is not for you, someone else.

2. he's really, really rude and makes a big deal out of nothing - he's called me stupid, coward, useless he just flips out at non issues like - the checks and account statements aren't kept at a place he wants em to be. he's really rude to our mum as well. but....mum has been very rude to him too and said some nasty stuff to him like 'i gave birth to a devil...' etc. it was completely uncalled for....
my mum and him don't seem to get along....

3. he's been pushing me to take care of part of business - it started out as innocent "overlooking".....now i am handling part of his business. now he's talking about me playing a bigger role!
when i say - i don't wanna do it.......he whines about how he has no time to do stuff....he gives me example of others who were "pushed" to take care of business by their fathers and they made it biiiiiig or he wd have hired someone else....but the business is already making losses right now......

4. he's a procrastinator....i am a procrastinator too.....but i really don't have a business that's sucking family money. ...he doesn't want to procrastinate......is avoiding "failing at something"

i wanna help my bro......but i have big dreams of my own! frankly, i am just currently pushing it so that his business can take some shape. like, the other day, i said that i am going to start looking for a job. his reply was "right now, it's better that you take care of that role in my business"

i am sooooo sick of all this!! i'm trying to keep this family together, i feel my life is falling apart. my bro n mum don't even try to resolve there infinite differences. i try to drill some sense in my bro to change his ways.....but he starts tussling about my traits. if he's losing an argument.......he starts attacking me personally.

i love my family n i love my bro.......but i am just exhausted of trying to improve situation. my bro refuses to change his ways saying "a person's behavior cannot be changed".

so bottom line.........what can i do to improve situation in my family?? how can i change my bro....make him less rude and less procrastinating. i want things to change.......i sometimes just feel like running away....sometimes, i just want to shift to another city with my mum? can you pls tell me what to do? i am going crazy and losing my peace of mind n sleep!

thank you soooo much for reading all this! any suggestion is appreciated......shrinks are bl oody expensive!

Asked By: Y! answerer - 2/8/2012
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker
It's a real tough situation and really feeling for you and your family.
As is suggested by Dannyboy, bring your mum in loop immediately. Don't keep anything hidden from her as if anything goes wrong she's gonna blame you.
Your brother might be a genius and a great guy however he has to understand this:
1. He has no right to use his mum's money without her consent.
2. He should not pull you in his business especially when you are not willing and have your own ambitions to fulfill
3. If the business is not generating profits then he has to wind it up quickly
4. He should not be rude to his mum or you for any reason as both of you have good intentions for him
5. He must not lose his temper as this would further impact his business decisions

Seems that your bro has become completely self centered and he has a reason for behaving in this way. He is fighting a war with himself and wants to be a winner (at any cost). He dont want to be a loser and thinks that he'd make it big one day. I respect his sentiments however he has selected a wrong path to achieve success. He's stealing money and also binding you. He's become weak while running breathlessly and not seeking help from his mum n sis but at the same time he is not willing to surrender. Somehow, his manhood is forcing him to do unmanly tasks.

This doesnt mean that he is a bad guy. According to me he is a gem of a person and I an bet that, the way he thinks about his customers/clients and helps them, no one else would do. However, somehow, luck is not in his favor and he's unable to make money. He, somehow, also wants to prove (to his mum n this world) that he can be a successful entrepreneur without having to go through the usual ways of attaining education and experiences before starting a business.
He is not wrong here as well!
Despite that, the truth of the situation is that his business is bleeding and same is happening with his relationship with mum n you.
I'd certainly suggest the following:
1. To begin with, your bro should become ego less and surrender himself so that he can start thinking with a fresh approach
2. He should try to find a partner (not you or your mum) who can throw some money in and see if that works
3. If that's not possible, he should wind it up / sell off to someone as quickly as possible
4. He must start respecting the sentiments of his mum, start listening to her (whateva she says) and never feel guilty about being unsuccessful as he has whole life to prove his worth.
5. Finally, the most difficult task, he should start finding a job for himself and I can guarantee that he'd be a successful man in no time.
#5 is the most difficult task as being an employer he would never want to become an employee but that would really work.
Even if he earns small money, he would be relieved off all the liabilities and wont have to become a thief. He can always become a business tycoon in the later part of his life.
Right now is the time to settle the things and no more experiments please.
Please have your bro read my words and see if he is willing to shrug off his ego (or say his business).
He's, for sure, change and rise like a sun in no time.
I, myself, have faced some of these situations and did the same. Today I am having much better, peaceful and respectable life. And yes, I am no more a businessman (but I might be, one day...lol).
Wish you have a great time wid ur family.
Take care!
Answered By: Manish - 2/9/2012
Additional Answers ()
Yes, if we love him/her than we can change anyone
Answered By: Kaushal - 2/9/2012
You can not change any one.
Answered By: visnarayan - 2/9/2012
The fact is your brother is a lethargic and irresponsible guy, who will not change under any circumstances. He is beyond change and wants to have his own way in everything. Your brother has himself stated that a person's behavior cannot be changed, and that shows how conceited and selfish he is. Open a new account and transfer the funds to the new account. Let this account be in the joint names of your mother and yourself and make sure your brother is kept out. You and your mom can stay separately and let your brother tend for himself. He is cheating the family of its money and you cannot blame your mom for being rude. She is helpless and somebody like you has to save her from going penniless. I know there will be an emotional conflict but it cannot be helped. The family need not suffer on account of your brother's selfishness. You discuss the matter with your mom and certain hard decisions have to be taken. Let your brother realize about himself the hard way.
Answered By: dannyboy - 2/9/2012
Yes
Answered By: swt pie - 2/9/2012
You can't change anyone but yourself. By playing a role in his business, and keeping silent about the things like your feelings about him using your mum's money without her knowledge, you're enabling him. There are some fundamental business practices that he must do if he's going to have a chance to succeed. #1 he must write a comprehensive business plan. #2 running a business is itself a complex skill, and even if he is gifted at doing what the business sells, his business,management skill will limit the potential of the business. If there is no business plan, insist he make one. If he balks, the state your continued support requires a sound and realistic business plan. Without one, the business has a very small chance to succeed. Good luck.
Source(s):
Owned and sold two businesses.
Answered By: Dan - 2/8/2012
Sponsored results
Found: Hiring Positions Near You. $10.50 - $83.75/hr. Apply Online.
HiringJobs.WorkGrabber.net
Search for Local Jobs. Find Answers on Ask.com.
Ask.com/Local Jobs
Find Expert Information. Job At Hotel on About.com.
About.com/Job At Hotel
Legitimate Surveys for Cash. Earn Cash in Your Spare Time, Free!
www.SurveySheep.com

Other Career Questions

I just did this really interesting Essay on family tree jobs/careers like 3 weeks ago. Well, I thought it was interesting, anyway, I thought it might be cool to get other people's opinions. In what ways do you think your family history of jobs/careers might affect your career choices?
2 answers - Asked By: thumbelina1769 - 11/4/2008
I often ask my parents to pay me for doing "jobs." Not things like cleaning inside the house or making supper, but things like cleaning & mowing the back/front yard, fixing the fence, cleaning their trucks ect. The way I see it, is im getting paid for time-consuming, non-family jobs that nobody else wants to do. Am i right, or does this seem wrong to you?
7 answers - Asked By: kwestions - 7/1/2011
I am Cambodian ,in Cambodia ,63 years old .i owe the bank 17000 $USD. My family finance is being down after recesson and i haveno good job now. I have to pay to the bank around 700$US a month. i cannot get this amount for the bank now and i want my house not to be confiscated by the bank for compensation.Please help my family ...My job is a teacher .i teach students at homes for money .i am in wheeling chair, i cannot walk i live with my wife ,housewife and a daughter of 20 years old and a grand child ,My icome is below 100$US for some month ,because there are lots of private school in Cambodia.
2 answers - Asked By: Yong - 11/24/2012

Content is not owned or controlled by Monster. Any content concerns should be addressed with Yahoo!
Yahoo! Does not evaluate or guarantee the accuracy of any Yahoo! Answers content. Yahoo! Disclaimer.

Popular Questions

So today I went in for an interview and I was going in for the 2nd interview by the head chief executive. now this is where it got weird, so she asked me about my previous jobs and said how much she liked that product over that product. then she started talking about her daughter? an her divorce ...then how she didn't finish college because she was making more money doing what she did for this company ... then she talked about how her teenage daughter is a handful... I just played it cool thinking she was using some sort of psychology thing to trick me into saying something stupid. the interview ended and she seemed happy an I was escorted to the door... now I'm freaking confused? is this normal behavior for an executive? like it felt like she was going to burst into tears at one point and tell me her life problems... is this normal? was she trying to see how I react or something?
6 answers - Asked By: Clone - 11/7/2012
Wen you apply at a job and they ask how mch you want as a salary what do you say?
2 answers - Asked By: Colette - 11/24/2011
Basically- no degree, although I have tried completing one in the past and stopped because of physical and mental health issues which were overwhelming to deal with along with going to classes full time. I'm not stupid and I am quite articulate. I am 23 and have only worked for about two years retail in high school and stopped working to go to university. I worked a few months in 2010 retail after I dropped out but it was only a seasonal position, and the only reason why I have not been able to constantly work is because of mental health issues. I had also tried going back to community college during my free time since i left university in 2008/9 and I had panic attacks while in community college, which made my anxiety worse from then on. Well recently I met a good doctor and he prescribed me some meds that are stabilizing my moods and I feel the best I've felt in years, and I'm ready to work. Thing is, I don't know how to get a job now since I've spent literally years being depressed and anxious doing nothing. I don't really have anything to put on my resume, and I never finished my AA degree either. All I've done is cashiering and although I do the job well and I get promoted easily when I do these jobs because I'm a hard worker and I try to go above and beyond what they ask of me,which is the attitude I have no matter what kind of work I'm doing as long as I'm getting paid. But I hate cashiering because it's too easy and I want a job that is more interesting. Any suggestions for me on how to get a job that is NOT Retail with the type of background I have right now? I also realize I have to go to college to get certain types of jobs, I am talking about what I can do right here right now.
1 answer - Asked By: Alex Prieto - 10/14/2012
Recently I have overlooked for a project at work and I am unable to accept it why? I am hard working, dedicated, maintain a very professional decorum, very cordial with my colleagues and bosses, give respect to one and all. Still people who take the p***, argue with managers, gossip mongers have been selected for some very responsible positions at work. I seriously can't get my head around it why, why unprofessional people who have no work ethics being selected over me, whereas I have a track record of excellent performance and never shy away from any work my manager ask me to do? I am at my lowest point and not getting hold of my manager to ask the question why not me, why them who can't even bother? I am feeling like a complete loser, giving years to this place, building my performance, trust and this is how I get rewarded. Why my life is so shit, anything I wish for turns to dust?
1 answer - Asked By: network7 - 11/6/2012
As stated in my question I've applied for multiple jobs and gotten no job interview, you name a place I've applied there. I've said i will work ridiculous hours from like 12am to 5am and nothing. I've said I am willing to work weekends public holidays everything and I have gotten nothing back I am so desperate for money it's not funny.
9 answers - Asked By: Jamie - 1/9/2012
So I have a nice white button up shirt, business skirt and pants, and a suit jacket. I'm applying for a software development job and I'm very short and can look young so I'm trying to look adult, yet professional. I'm also attractive so I'm trying not to look too sexy. For the career fair I'm thinking of wearing just my nice shirt and a skirt with low heels. My reasoning being it's approachable and attractive without going overboard since the career fair hosts are mostly younger male recent grads. I want to be remembered but not intimidating. For my interviews I was thinking pants, suit jacket (power suit). My reasoning being it'll be older execs and HR people (mostly women) so less sexy with the pants but more powerful with the suit jacket. What do you think?!
2 answers - Asked By: Beast - 9/23/2012
I'm really having a hard time finding a job. I'm not sure why employers aren't contacting me :( I have about 4 years in expereince ( about 1 year of management) Well, here it is Jon smith Erlanger KY, USA Cell: +1-859-111-1111 E-mail:abc.def@outlook.com OBJECTIVE Obtain a position as a project manager/coordinator allowing me to utilize my administrative, organizational and problem-solving skills with a growing organization to mutually enhance growth of professional development and success. WORK EXPERIENCE ATS Jun 2012 – Apr 2013 Project Manager I: Managed projects development and staff in different divisions to achieve projects goals through practices of planning, executing and analyzing project-related tasks. Duties, responsibilities and contributions to assigned projects include the following: • Prepare and create project scopes, SWOT analysis reports and statements of work as assigned. • Visit anticipated project sites and create assessments for necessary work. • Analyze given scopes to assist engineers into reaching projects’ objectives. • Examine and manage available resources relating to materials and manpower. • Coordinate staff and arrange regular meetings. • Inspect daily operations and quality of products used on premise. • Implement solutions to resolve complex jobs relating to the project. • Manage and ensure that operations are executed in accordance to project scope and SOW. • Review and submit documents for projects deliverables/submittals and create schedules for subcontractors. • Document all events occurred during project life cycle and submit reports to senior management. Assigned Projects: 1- Conference Rooms IT/Multimedia Project Duration: Jun 2012 – Dec 2012 2- Military Base Renovation Project Duration: Aug 2012 – Aug 2013 AT&T / U-verse Division Oct 2011 – Feb 2012 Command Center Agent II: Applied knowledge to solve common and complex related issues to consumer’s services and devices. The position allowed for individual work at minimum supervision and within teams when necessary. Duties of the position included: •Provide phone/virtual support to internal and external customers. •Audit reports submitted by technicians and follow up with customers. •Implement and updated solutions within workflow system (WFE system). •Interact with IT department personnel to resolve common issues. •Provide assistance to first level support agents. •Maintain database and accounts for customers. Cleve’s Connections May 2009 – Nov 2010 IT Specialist: Provided hands-on and virtual administration for all IT related topics and managed sales for all devices and services. This included consulting, providing solutions, and improving efficiency for small businesses in design and security areas. Tasks performed while working included: • Resolve & close all open cases submitted by staff or customers. • Setup and manage user accounts through Active Directory. • Monitor network activities and logs and report system bugs, downtimes or crashes. • On-site maintenance and installation of network equipment and computer hardware/software. • Perform system setup operations and data backups as requested. • Create case analysis and audit reports given by technicians. • On-call support 24/7. EDUCATION • Devry University, Cincinnati OH Bachelor in Management Graduation: 2012 • Cincinnati State, Cincinnati OH Associate in Network Administration Graduation: Transfer 2010 To Andy: What does my Devry have to do with anything? for profit school? I'm not sure what college you graduated from, but in the real world experience weights more than a piece of paper stating you've completed few written assignments and imaginary projects. SMH!
3 answers - Asked By: Zaid I - 5/8/2013
I am currently a 1st year irregular college student taking I.T. I transferred schools and my majors never got credited. But it's okay because i am slowly getting the logics in programming in Java. This next semester i am taking a System Analysis and Design(SADSIGN) and i am getting nervous because even though i am pretty good at logics, i am not that good at coding. But since it is a case study, we will be on group, we will be four i think. Project manager, Analyst, Documentation, and the programmer. I am asking what jobs i can get after graduating I.T. because what if i graduated I.T. and still not that good at coding, i am hoping that there will be a jobs that will require less programming. Like Database manager or in Multimedia or in charge of Network. So is there jobs that doesn't require hardcore programming skills?
2 answers - Asked By: Jay p*e - 5/6/2013
Account Executive Hospitality Manager Sales Representative Editorial Assistant Advertising Manager Hotel Manager Personnel Specialist Writer/Author Association Administrator Presenter Special Events Coordinator Political Aide Promotions Manager Speech Writer Consumer Affairs Specialist Sportscaster Public Information Officer Communications Director Public Relations Specialist Radio/TV Announcer Technical Writer Telemarketing Specialist Customer Service Rep. Fund Raiser Training & Development Specialist Events Planner Flight Attendant Youth Worker Media Manager Recruiter Market Research Analyst Community Action Director Recreation/Attractions Manager Restaurant Manager Campaign Manager Development Director Script Writer Photojournalist Advertising Copywriter Museum Director Greeting Card Writer Production Assistant Actor, Mime Narrator Stage Manager Director Impersonator Make-up Artist Stunt Coordinator Booking Agent Talent Scout Drama Coach Stand-in Playwright Stage Manager Movie Theater Manager
2 answers - Asked By: Jolynn - 4/28/2013
The question explains it, i am thinking of going to an engineering high school but of course it will focus on other stuff too but still. What kind of jobs can you get because i dont want to be a mechanic(no offence to any) but please help me!
2 answers - Asked By: hungergameslover - 5/13/2013
Can someone tell me te difference between computer science and a computer engineering major. Is it the same?
2 answers - Asked By: Rosalva - 5/6/2013
L want to study medicine and work as a doctor but l am limited due to luck of required monyes. however l swtched on to anther career but still within my career interests as a care giver, but this is somthing to do with sales and marketing in the pharmcitical industry.
2 answers - Asked By: tonnydanabwembya - 12/24/2005
Is there any difference between a "nurse practitioner" and an "advanced registered nurse practitioner"?
1 answer - Asked By: lucysmom - 3/27/2006
3 answers - Asked By: hubbard_billy - 2/24/2006
My second interview is on Monday and I want to be prepared. It's for an assistant controller position. I've already met with the controller and the hr manager. Monday I will be meeting with the president of the company. How could I prepare myself for Monday's interview? Thanks! Any comments would be great!
3 answers - Asked By: Virginia - 6/6/2009
Advances in technology will soon cause 70-80?nemployment in the USA. How will all those millions of people eat, then? That will lead to a conflict between Social Market-ists (gov't imposed wealth redistribution) and Free Market-ists (no gov't imposed wealth redistribution). First, the Luddite Fallacy. It WAS valid UNTIL machines could do most human mental functions better than humans. Some experts are already saying this, but generally it seems like the American Society and its leaders are proceeding in utter ignorance. You probably know about all the technologies that now exist or will soon be up & running, & which will massively reduce the need for human labor in the economy, thus MAKING MOST HUMANS UNNECESSARY to the economy. Some facts: (1) A couple weeks ago all the toll booth workers on the Golden Gate Bridge were all dismissed because the gov't bought a machine to handle everything. (2) Computer voice recognition already exists, in programs such as Siri and Google Voice and others. But very soon these programs will be so much better. Virtually all the human-staffed customer service call centers will disappear very soon. Human office receptions will be mostly eliminated. (3) McDonald's already has a prototype version of their fast food restaurant with NO human workers on site. (4) Wal-Mart & other retailers already have plans for stores with NO human cashiers. (5) Google's driverless cars and trucks will soon eliminate most drivers of commercial trucks & taxi cabs. (6) IBM's computer "Watson" defeated the best human players on "Jeopardy" about a year ago. Watson had to hear and understand host Alex Trebeck's spoken speech just like the human contestants. IBM created Watson to replace Medical Doctors. The plan is that nurses and nurses practitioners will take data from patients (temperate, blood pressure, reports of pains, etc.), enter that into Watson, and Watson will order tests and make prescriptions and treatment plans. Unlike human doctors, Watson will KNOW EVERYTHING about medical science. Doctor errors currently kill about 100,000 patients per year in hospitals alone. Patients will DEMAND to be diagnosed by Watson (or other equivalent) & have a prescription by Watson, since studies will show that patients fare so MUCH better when Watson is their “doctor,” and the cost will be MUCH less. (7) Computers are now replacing the lawyers that formerly had to spend massive hours read through massive amounts of documents turned over to the opposing side in "discovery" in civil lawsuits. Documents now are turned over in digital form, and computers search in seconds them looking for key words and phrases. (8) Soon publishers will stop printing books on paper. Everyone will have an e-Reader device. That will be the END of every physical library and bookstore. (9) Soon computers will be able to general characters in movies that are indistinguishable from real humans. Not only actors will lose their jobs, but costume people, makeup people, scene construction people, camera operators, key grips, electricians, lighting experts, etc. (10) New machines are replacing the humans who pick vegetables in fields. (11) New machines are replacing human security guards. (12) Human airplane pilots, both in the military and in commercial service, will soon be extinct. The FAA has already approved testing of drone planes for commercial transportation of non-human cargo. (13) Most trades on Wall Street are already being made by computers. (14) The U.S. Postal Service is doomed. Paying thousands of people to drive around in little trucks to deliver little printed pieces of paper to each household each day is going to seem more and more like idiocy. (15) Most of the reviews and analysis currently being done by human accountants, actuaries, tax experts, and other financial analysts and consultants will be done must better, more more quickly, and much more accurately, by computers. (16) Web sites already are using computer programs to write the text for stories that report on sports games. The program integrates the statistics from the game into a story text that seems to have been written by a human being. (17)Most education at the college and high school level will soon be done online, eliminating a massive number of workers. Thus, GIGANTIC UNEMPLOYMENT, in the range of 70-80?is coming soon to the USA. This will result in Rio De Janeiro type slums all over the USA. That will result in calls for gov't wealth redistribution, which will result in Armed Revolution, Counter-Revolution, concentration camps, & Latin American-style death squads. The rich and ultra-rich are never going to let any government get control of their wealth. Huge bloody CONFLICT is coming. * * * Politicians keep repeating the old canard that the solution is to train and retrain Americans for the "jobs of the future." But they are either morons or are lying, since anyone who thinks about it can easily see that even if every American worker had an engineering degree or a computer science degree, the economy just doesn't need that many engineers and computer scientists. * * * * * * * Why don't more people see this? Why aren't more people talking about this? We are facing soon a catastrophe in the USA (and in other places) on par of the plagues in Europe that killed half of the population in certain areas, and on par with the depopulation in Europe brought about by WWI and WWII. Sure, you can just repeat the Luddite Fallacy, and proclaim that the economy will always create enough jobs for most people to survive. But there is no law of economics that says that any law of economics will always operate the same. Laws of economics are not like the laws of physics. Economies and life forms can and do evolve in fundamental ways that make former economic models and ways of life obsolete. I'm sure the last tribe of Neanderthals were certain that nothing was ever going to change, right before the Homo Sapiens swooped down on them, chased them into a dead end canyon were other Homo Sapiens were lying in wait with big clubs. * * * * * * * * * In the past the Luddite Fallacy was valid since machines always needed the mental acuity that only human operators could provide, and machines frequently needed maintenance by skilled human hands and minds. But now machines have mental functions that equal or surpass what humans can provide in most work functions. And computers aren't so much repaired anymore as just thrown away and replaced. How many cell phone repair shops have you ever seen? Even most laptop computers are replaced rather than repaired. More and more laptop computers never even need to be repaired for years and years. In short, when the economy has no use for most Americans, all h*ll is going to brake loose, & that's coming soon. * * * * *
2 answers - Asked By: Perro Americano Invicto - 5/16/2013
I know that Escrow is within Title industry in Texas. What would be the best way to get my foot in the door. I am assuming I will have to start as an Escrow assistant and work my way up, but I would really like to find out more about this career path. How does an officer usually get licensed? Are there classes we need to take and exam to take? Any response is appreciated.
2 answers - Asked By: schang25 - 2/10/2006
1 answer - Asked By: Big D - 5/3/2013
I've always freelanced as a web designer and might have an opportunity to work at a large ad agency. sorta nervous about the culture and role, so I was wondering if I could solicit feedback about the type of strengths I might need to develop, ie., strong project management (learn to use basecamp!), etc. I've held jobs on the client side as a web marketing manager and before that freelanced -- but on the very small scale. anyone with similiar experiences or feedback I'd love to hear from you!
2 answers - Asked By: webguy - 2/11/2006
I have to get an electrican to fix an overloaded circuit and possible short. so do you tip and if so, how much?
4 answers - Asked By: speedlvr_8 - 12/29/2005
Search SEARCH

Popular Job Searches

Explore Jobs and Career Opportunities

Popular Program Searches

Further Your Career With A Degree

Popular Articles

Browse Articles Related To Careers
2013 Marketing Jobs Outlook Article Rating
The US may be facing another year of anemic hiring overall, but that won't be the case in the high-orbit world of multichannel, digital media marketing.
2013 Engineering Jobs Outlook Article Rating
Engineers will find job opportunities in select disciplines in 2013, with candidates who are all-around, client-oriented businesspeople in demand.
Best-Paying Jobs by MajorArticle Rating
What could you earn with a particular four-year degree? Find out by checking out this list of the top-paying jobs for 20 of the most common majors.
Eight High-Paying, Secure JobsArticle Rating
Want to earn a good salary and enjoy a measure of job security as well? Check out these well-paying jobs on tap for fast growth in the coming years.
2013 Finance Jobs OutlookArticle Rating
Three things predict whether your finance job search will fly or flop in 2013: your skills, your industry knowledge and (surprise!) the federal budget.

Monster Communities

Teaching Community
Where teachers meet and learn.
ArtBistro
Create and connect.
Excelle
Networking for the career-minded woman.
Nursing Link
Where nurses call the shots.
More Monster Communities

Monster Partners

Scholarships
Scholarships, financial aid and more ways to pay for school.
Education.org
Find top campus and online degree programs.
Military.com
Military portal for the US Army, Navy, Air Force, Marine Corps and Coast Guard.
Financial Aid
Scholarships & financial aid.
Staffing for Government Jobs
Staffing and hiring solutions for federal government agency jobs.
More Monster Partners

Job Hunt Strategy

Six Ways to Make a Recruiter Hate You
If you want to blow your chances with recruiters -- and, by extension, with the companies they work for -- here are six perfect ways to do so.

Resumes & Cover Letters

Rev Up Your Resume to Relocate
Hoping to relocate? Get the ball rolling on landing the right job in the right location with these expert resume and cover letter tips.

Interviewing

100 Potential Interview Questions
Interview questions can run the gamut. You probably won't face all 100 of these, but you should still be prepared to answer at least some of them.

Salary & Benefits

10 Questions to Ask When Negotiating Salary
Most of us aren't natural negotiators, but asking these 10 questions during salary negotiations can help you get everything you deserve.

Employee Sourcing

Alt text
November Monster Employment Index Grows 13% Year-Over-Year, Tenth Consecutive Month of Positive Annual Growth.

For Seekers

Campus and Online Degrees
Advance your career and earn more with an online degree.
Free Salary Wizard
What are you worth? Find out and negotiate a better salary.
Research Careers
Get information on jobs and career paths to help guide your choices
Questions & Answers
Find answers to all your career related questions -- powered by Yahoo! Answers
Resume Distribution Service
Our distribution service puts your resume right in the hands of recruiters.
Resume Writing Services
Our experts will craft a keyword-rich resume that stands out in the crowd.
More Career Resources

For Employers

Career Ad Network
Target your job posting to more candidates on thousands of websites.
Hire Right Background Checks
Explore our background check packages to improve the quality of your hires.
Hiring Home Page
Find the best candidates for your business with Monster hiring solutions.
Job Postings
Find the right solution for your hiring needs. Starting at $99.
Power Resume Search
Monster's new search technology precisely matches people with your jobs.
Resource Center
Find staffing insights, labor trends, HR best practices and more.
Target Post
Connect with skilled, hourly and administrative candidates for only $99.

Social Media

Jobs on Twitter
Find jobs in your area and industry.
Monster Careers
Tune into our career advice and discussions tackling a wide range of topics and industries.
Monster Corporate & PR
Stay up-to-date on the latest news. Get the 'Who', 'What', 'When', and 'Why' on all things Monster related.
Monster Customer Service
Got a Monster question? We've got the answer. Whether you're a job seeker or employer, we can help you find the answers you need.
Monster for Employers
Find advice on hiring.
Follow Us
Check out our many pages and stay connected with the latest industry news, events, career advice and job openings.

Other Links

Advice Forums
Tap into Monster's online career forums and share advice with experts.
Monster Company Profiles
Explore companies and get information to guide your career decisions.
Compare Salaries
See how your pay stacks up to others in your field.
iPhone Application
Download the Monster app for iPhone and iPod touch.
Monster Job Seeker Blog
Monster Job Seeker Blog.
Monster Thinking Blog
Monster's Recruitment Trends Blog.
Jobs & Career Resources
Search Jobs:
For Employers: Post Jobs | Search Resumes | Advertise
About Monster | Work for Monster | Advertise with Us | AdChoices | Partner with Us | Investor Relations | Social Media
Terms of Use | Privacy Center | Accessibility Centre | Help | Security | Contact Us | Sitemap | Mobile
©2013 Monster - All Rights Reserved U.S. Patents No. 5,832,497; 7,599,930 B1; 7,827,125 and 7,836,060 MWW - Looking for Monster Cable? - V: 2013.1.0.14-303
eTrustLogo