Mi gfriend have borderline personality disorder and she is 11 weeks pregnant and she left me what i should do?
i am with her one year so far she at first meeting was quiet shy and looks happy ,after few meetings we plan she move to my home was exited after that she was hung out with her friends,after that i lose job and w decide to go to my country Poland for a while and have break holiday from 14 Jan 2012 to 23 Mar 2012 in Poland she was really rude to me and others fight with me scream at night, see things and be afraid to going to toilet alone,ect.she was running few times my mom report us to the police ,and once she lock her self in toilet and punching her self in face ,i saw by the small window she dnt want open and my moms like peace and quiet and she was in UK for few weeks an she say to my girlfriend London bye bye if she gona scream at night and she took cup of tea and smash on head,lots of blood 4 stitches on her head in hospital extra payment for me in hospital because she was from abroad,and after we back ,to england was madness i cant find job she not even want to try because her health,she run once to her mom in her birth day 8 of April and she back after few 3 weeks saying come pick me up i dnt want be alone hire,and she was saying when she be at her mom house she do abortion,she back,story change everything was ok new house she was staying alone for 3-4 hours in the morning because my job,she say one day she gone give baby to adoption and i start speak with her serious an she call me devil and last Thursday she get appointment at 1 pm in council i meet her there at 16:45 ...she Still in council and she say go outside smoke wait for me there ,but i was no lessening i hear something about am have some my stuff and bags at his home ,its mean she plan it! and at 17:45 i left to work last i saw was check from council in her bag prob... money? i go to work.and she call me at 21 pm she leaving and fev second actually i already left home an keys are under carpet outside... i call her fev times no time for me ,Saturday she call come pick me up am in reading 40 miles from my home i was sad and drunk i did int go next day she dont whant see me now ...i call send text and she start scaring me police becuse am calling her ect. so i stops and waiting for hear from her ,police oficer after call to her call me back and say she tell me she contact u give her some time shes ok(sunday i report to police mising beuouse she say have no money to come back.from Reading to Hounslow and she have just 5 pounds ).they call to ask if she OK again and she #say am fine i will contact him when i feel to OK an she hang up telephone from police.and now about me am siting getting crazy ,depress wit my mind somewhere close to her and her stomach with my baby in.i love them both my finance an my baby please help .any idea??????? am in London and i dnt have any right what can i do at the moment am just s***m donation ,witch right have future father of the baby what can i do what not??? any advice??? everyone says no much i can do but meybe someone was in similar situation before help help help please i dnt know what to do???? I don't want give baby to adoption i prefer be lonely parent and be happy if u know how to help let me know?
Asked By: Paul - 5/14/2012
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Przepraszam ze taka sytuacja pana trafila. Wyglada na to ze jest duzo problemuw co pan bedzie musial Jakos z nich wyjsc... Niech pan sprubuje z nia porozmawiac przynajmniej o dziecku I jakie ona ma plany, bez pana pozwolenia ona nie moze oddac dziecka do adopci, wiec Niech pan pujdzie do sadu jak by prubowala oddac... More
Answered By: Patricia 2000 - 5/14/2012
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dump her and find someone else with less baggage and fewer problems
Answered By: Zoey - 5/14/2012
Your grammar makes my eye bleed.
Answered By: TheBoun - 5/14/2012
You need to work out these issues with her. Try and get her to understand how you feel.
Answered By: Dr. Crasie Brayne - 5/14/2012
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