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16 year old mom question?

I take care of my child like I'm supposed to , she doesn't leave my side, ever.
The only time she does, is when my family takes her without my permission.
I'm going to spend the night at a friends house, who is only in Arizona to visit for a few days, and my mom said I can't bring my daughter.
I'm SURE there's some law against this, but I don't know what.
Can someone tell me a way that I can tell her that since Leigha is in my custody, and I'm her mom I can take her with me?
I've refused to let my daughter stay in their care after I woke up one morning when they had taken her and found they left her on their bed when she was sleeping and she fell onto a tile floor, she's only 6 months old.
I'm spending the night ONE night. The age doesn't make a mother, the actions do,case anyone wants to rag on the fact I'm 16. Yes, I got pregnant at a young age but I'm doing everything I can to take care of her the way she should be.

Asked By: Bree-Baby - 6/26/2012
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If you live in Arizona and you're 16 your parents can still tell you what to do unless you get yourself emancipated. Them telling you what to do also includes your child since she's also a minor under their roof. The only say you got when it comes to her is her medical care and if you choose to move out you can take her with you. You don't like the way they raise your child then no more free child care for you. Don't ask them to baby sit her if you don't like them watching her. Get yourself a job and move out. Maybe your parents don't trust you with your kid, ya know cuz you're a child still too. Maybe they don't like your friend. You may be a mother, but you sure aint a mature one. Your parents can see a lot more into things than you do. Your whole post makes you sound like an ignorant and bratty 16 year old. Grow up and be a mom. You may think you are doing great, but great for a 16 year old still aint good enough. You rescinded your right to a social life when you got pregnant. Time to get a job and move out. Otherwise you will have to deal with your parents until you're 18.
Answered By: manic - 6/26/2012
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The last bit, is legit so cute :3 and you have a right to take your child for just one night. Did your child come out of your mothers vaginaa? Did she do all the work to get your baby in this world? No. So just take her. dw bout your mum.
Answered By: Kourtney - 6/26/2012
Not exactly if there's a law regarding that since you are a minor yourself. I'm not sure actually. It'd be best to call your local police department (not 911, but their direct number lol) or stop by and speak with someone about that. They should definitely be able to give you a clear answer if you truly do not want your baby with your mom that day. You can just ask them in a more general tone, you don't have to say it's your baby or your mom exactly. Just make it a general question if you want and go from there.
Answered By: Jay - 6/26/2012
YOUR child, YOUR decision. Every decision is YOURS when it comes to your baby. Tell your mum that you appreciate her input but you'll do what you want.
Answered By: Heather - 6/26/2012
Sweetie she is YOUR child, your mom is prob. just trying to take control of your child because your still a child yourself and she is simply trying to guide you to make right decisions. I would hope you wouldn't take your child anywhere she wouldn't be safe. You need support not someone on your back constantly. You sound like a strong mature young mother. Do what you think is best. if you think taking the baby will create drama and affect your baby then you should prob. deal with your mom wanting you to leavethe baby, remember it's not about you anymore it's about your little girl! (: good luck, stay strong!
Answered By: City_dancer - 6/26/2012
IT'S YOUR DAUGHTER! Your mother doesn't even sound like a proper mother!
Answered By: ~Firestar~Forever~ - 6/26/2012
Take her with you... she is your daughter and that sounds like a life threatening family...
Answered By: Ann - 6/26/2012
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