In need of love/relationship advice, I'm so blind, I need help?
I have been dating this guy on and off for three years.We met at work, he was a security officer, and now works at a gym as a sales counselor.He lives in a four bedroom house, with his sons mother who happens to be the mother of his oldest son.He say they are not together, and hes just helping her out because she has two other children he cares about, so he doesnt want to see them homeless.but whenever I try and come by and see him he says no, because I know the reason.Second,he never can spend the night because, its usually because his babysitter has a time limit, or he has do something in the morning...Third, I let him borrow 250.00 dollars as a loan until 9/23 a few weeks ago, because he says that he was late on his rent and the irs took over 300 dollars out of his check and really needed the loan asap.I said okay, but please pay me back on the 23rd. he promised to pay me back but he said he couldnt pay me back until next week, because he has a irs lein that garnished his check a second time.So I called him monday several times, texted him, no answer.I called his job, his supervisor tells me hes off, so he calls me yesterday on his way to work, and says that he couldnt call me back because he was working on his aunts front lawn and was too tired so he turned his phone off. And thats how it always is, If I try and call or text him when hes off, I get no response, until he s either driving to work, or actually at work.And when I questions him about it,its always well, I was sleep, or I turned my phone off.Then when we o talk, its always about sex, how he wants me to get a hotel room near his house, it cant be too far, or he asking me to send a airplane ticket for him to come visit me, I'm thinking like this guy is a serious loser.Fourth, its my birthday, havent even got a phone call or a email to wish me a happy birthday, I am feeling very sad about that. any advice any opinions.
Asked By: Patrice Billups - 9/26/2012
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Well, he sounds like quite the catch. He is obviously married with kids. He is using you and cheating on her with you. It's classic cheater rhetoric. I would go to the house and tell his wife he borrowed 250 from you and you had better get it back or you'll sue. Make sure you save any e mails or texts or messages from... More
Answered By: Geewhiz - 9/26/2012
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There is a reason Y!A has a "Singles & Dating" section... More
Answered By: DK44 - 9/26/2012
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