My 3 year old boy was diagnosed with autism....?

	My 3 year old boy was diagnosed with autism....? 3 months ago my son was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder,what made me decide to go to a developmental specialist was when i enrolled him in a daycare center, i observed that he is not sitting on his chair & doing different things from his classmates. i was shocked to find out that, i am totally clueless what asd is...i searched & read about the cause & treatments. we started the occupational therapy and we've been going to his therapist for 3 months now.i've seen a lot of improvements, and he can now ask & say what he wants, though he cant still compose a complete sentence.up to now, i am still seeking for answers. what is life when he grows old? is he going to outgrow his asd? he is my only son and im totally disappointed to find out that he has that kind of disorder.i just want him to have a life on his own someday.i cant be with him forever. some parents that i interviewed in the therapy center, they told me that a lot of children in the center finished the therapy after 3 years and already mainstreamed and they already attend to a regular school.i want to stay positive that my son can go to a regular next year after a year of his therapy.but i'll continue his therapy until he gets better.another problem is that i dont have a job to support my son's fee for his treatment, its very expensive.i just do hope that God will help me along the way.can you give or share some advice about asd and is it really true that 3 years of therapy is effective in order to get out or somewhat be a normal kid again? my son is normal and saying words when he was 1 and 2, thats why i didnt expect he has asd.thank you. im here in the philippines.God bless ! Asked By: devilish - 10/19/2012

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Hi, I've had Autism, and ADHD, from birth. My mother probably had the same sort of problems you are going through, but you've actually got it a lot easier. I was considered just a naughty child until I was diagnosed. I'm sorry to say people don't grow out of Autism. With the right medications, early intervention, and loving parents an Autistic child can grow up to live a normal life just like anyone else. Don't worry too much about school or activities, just build your relationship and understanding. In Australia we have an organisation called Autism Australia, and that did wonders for my development as a kid. Doctors still don't know that much about Autism, so try and find one that is familiar with Autism, not just normal medical problems. Don't ever feel down. You might be raising the next Einstein (who is widely considered to have been a high functioning Autistic) and should consider it a blessing not a curse. Savant Autistics can go on to become the greatest mind in their fields. I'll go through your question piece by piece to help you out as much as possible: Autistic children are off in their own little world, and shouldn't be expected to conform. It's normal for a child to go off exploring on their own, and Autistic children learn best at their own pace. ADD or ADHD are also common in sort of a package deal with Autism, so sitting still and focusing is hard. Language was actually my strong suit, I was reading at a seventh grade level in grade one and begging for more work to show off. Your child just might not be suited to making full sentences, and it could even be something as simple as a "why say more than I have to" mindset. As he grows up he'll rely on you a little less each year, but will never truly outgrow it. I can say right now that with him as your only son you'll have your hands well and truly full. I wouldn't recommend more kids. Three years? That's actually pretty funny. Maybe some other disorders, but it working for Autism in three years is quite the stretch. Even though I'm considered extremely high functioning, I never adapted to mainstream school. Don't let that get you down, I spent a lot of time with my mother and am currently getting a grade ten equivalent now when I've got better control over my Autism, so it's not like school is the most important thing. Some one on one home schooling is a good idea though. I'm sorry to hear that you're not doing well with money. My mother married a deadbeat who took all of her savings so we lived off of the bare minimum. Some cheap alternatives to therapy would be learning about autism, and strategies for it, yourself. In the end, you are probably going to be more effective as a familiar person than some doctor. And remember, it's Autistic SPECTRUM Disorder. No two children are exactly alike, but can be quite similar. For reading I recommend The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time. It's a very accurate portrayal of Autism. I'd love to help you more, but I don't know much about Filipino services for Autism or even that you have enough understanding of English to be able to read any books or web services I could recommend to you. If you need ANY more help, please contact me. I would be beyond happy to help you in any way I can. Answered By: - 10/20/2012

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Will sadly there is no cure for autism. The good news is it won't really hold him back. Did you know that Albert Einstein had autism? Just goes to show people with can do just about anything. Answered By: Alex - 10/20/2012

What is autism is it really bad Answered By: Dennis - 10/20/2012

One of my best friends is 14 now and has had Autism for as long as I have known her. She attends mainstream high school (like me) and went to a regular primary school too. She still goes to see a councillor once a week though. I does help her. She finds it easier to offload her problems onto someone else - especially someone she doesn't particularly know that well. I'm sure things will get better in time for your son. Everybody I know accepts her for who she is - Autism or not. Sure, some people can be btches and take the pss but in life, there's always somebody to out you down. My friend has now become very independent and has become her own person who still does rely on her parents from time-to-time (but who doesn't at our age?) Answered By: Elise - 10/19/2012

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