I m sad, I just found out that my former classmate committed suicide and I cannot stop thinking about him?!?
I m so sad, I just found out that my former tuition class mate committed suicide and I cannot stop thinking about him. He was my former tuition classmate and neighbour, and we used to car pool to school together with his mom and sis. I used to play with his sister. I actually saw him a few months earlier,not too long ago. I used to see him everyday and now I can't believe he's gone.He jumped from the 3rd floor parking lot of the bank where he worked to the ground and landed face down on the pavement and died on the spot. Even though I don't know him very well and I rarely spoke to him, I feel so sad.What a painful, cruel, tragic way to die. Why do I feel this way ? Just a few days ago I was very sad and depressed because I just had lost my job for the third time , and then I had to go to a friend's wedding, which I did not attend due to work. I was so sad, I wish I could die.There were many times in my life I was depressed and suicidal. And then , When I heard this news about my former classmate who actually took his life away , I was even more sad. Even in the newspaper, they said he was a mediocre worker who has been working in the bank for 10 years . He was average in this studies and managed to get a clerical job in the bank and remained there for 10 years without getting fired because his dad is rich and influential.He drives a Volvo. Now, I look at the Volvo car in the parking lot in his house and I feel my heart sinking. I saw him a few months ago and his hair was all white and he looked very old,like in his 50s even though he is only 30. I never knew that would be the last time I ever saw him. I cannot focus on anything right now. It has been a tough week and such a trying time, with one thing after another and another.
Asked By: Aurelia - 12/2/2012
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I hear how sad your are feeling over your friend's suicide. It sounds like you are in shock and also mourning after hearing stunningly graphically wretched details of a classmate/neighbor's suicide. ON TOP OF THAT you were already having a rough time in this terrible economy due to repeatedly losing your job.You have... More
Answered By: Cinnamon - 12/2/2012
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You just have a lot on your plate. Take some time to breath and you'll be fine.
Answered By: Zoey - 12/2/2012
I think u feel so sad because u are a very sensitive person, u knew him since u were a child, u sort of grew up together and even though u didn't know him very well, u got attached in some way to this person and u care.
Answered By: Dada - 12/2/2012
GO TO YOUR DR AND SPEAK WITH THEM ASAP....
Answered By: tazzybeer06 - 12/2/2012
Take some time for yourself. Don't plan anything or operate on any kind of schedule. Eat when you want to, sleep when you want to, or read or do whatever will help you just to relax... More
Answered By: Warren D - 12/2/2012
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