How to make her come along into the big, wide world?

There's this "girl" I've known all my life - I'm 41, she's 40. We used to play in the sandbox as kids together. I've always liked her a lot. Now she's a doctor in Bavaria, and I'm an education consultant in China, my home is in Sweden, and I want to retire in New Zealand (I'm a citizen there, so I may). She's from southern Germany, has her folks there, a good job. I'd like her to come away with me, live in Sweden and New Zealand. I think it's reasonably safe to do - both countries offer better social security than where she is now, and I know she loves New Zealand, too, has visited me there twice when I lived there. But she's so attached to her folks and her job in Bavaria... d**n. What can I possibly do? I've told her she's perfectly safe in Sweden and wouldn't even need to work if she doesn't want to... my house is paid off. I don't get it. Anyone with insight? What should I try?

Asked By: Tahini Classic - 1/17/2013
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First thing is, I doubt that the social security is better in these countries. Germany did more than any other state, that's the reason so many are coming back when they're old because due to this... More
Answered By: Franky - 1/17/2013
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Dear friend, don't try anything! I believe Franky is right with what he's saying..
Answered By: rosadam - 1/18/2013
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